Too frustrated, just like a kid throwing tantrum because he doesn't get what he want. She definitely has higher status at this point. Despite the choice of words you used, the message still reeks of frustration and neediness. And at the end you don't even sure about EVERYTHING you just said "I guess ..."
IMO, this is a reply an alpha who doesn't care since he GOT GIRLS around him would say:
"Cool. We'll see !"
That's it, and if she doesn't txt you to get together, who cares, you GOT GIRLs around you remember. Just simple say "NEXT", no need to busting her balls about it, you HAD fun. If she doesn't up for it anymore, then that's that. MOVE ON.

Freinds:

We fucked a few times, then she dissapeared for months, been talking for past few weeks but she dont show up to fuck. So frustrated n trying not to show.

This convo is still going on, but so far who has the higher status? Is it rude what I said? Obvious Im frustrated? Or dont give a fuck attitude?

First I typed:



Cheers

I mean, if you were an .. ugh I hate the term Alpha, but I will use it.. Alpha Male.. you wouldn't even need to mention it.

I have a girlfriend, she knows, thats not very fagety.

I hear ya but sometimes,, no ALWAYS women do not have any idea what/how to do! Reminding them in a polite way, that she is fucked up, helps..

I agree, but this isn't a situation to call for it. She did nothing WRONG here, it's not like she PROMISE to come over for a fuck, and never SHOW UP. Now that is when you need to bust her ass, and set the ground rules. But in this case, you get frustrated because she isn't interested in having sex ANYMORE? Don't put all the blame on the girl.
And FYI, if you want to tell her what to do, you don't have type a whole paragraph about it, Just simply a command : "Look I know we both enjoy our sex, and I WANT you to come over and suck my cock" - THAT is the right way to do it.

And FYI, if you want to tell her what to do, you don't have type a whole paragraph about it, Just simply a command : "Look I know we both enjoy our sex, and I WANT you to come over and suck my cock" - THAT is the right way to do it.

Probably I should have explained more before I post this. 2months ago she came over fucked me and nagged 1 hour how she is not intrested to her man anymore and its over. She said we will go out and make new terms and I have to make it clear what Im doing with my woman. Since then she disappeared and started flaking, we did have sort of an agreement.

The one who cares the least, has the most power.. you care more because you're calling her out.