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| Author: | canadiandude [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 11:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Asking her Friend for her Digits |
For anyone that read my recent post about being unsure if I liked a certain girl, this is in regards to her. I haven't seen her often so far this summer. I don't have her phone number, and she doesn't have facebook. And since I decided that I do want to wheel her (as my girlfriend, not another notch on the belt) I've seen her once for about 30 seconds and she was with her parents, so I didn't ask for her number. I know her friend fairly well, and I can tell they both think I'm an awesome guy. So my question is, since I don't know exactly when I'd see her again, would there be anything wrong with texting the HB's friend, telling her I'm interested in getting to know the HB, and ask for her number? I think in this situation it'd work really well because I can tell the HB is interested in me, and I don't think it'd be good to keep her waiting. If I got her number from her friend then called/texted her the next day I think I'd get great results. Cheers |
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| Author: | charblad [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 12:50 am ] |
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Theres a good and bad side to this. So remember that if i forget to put the other side to it. When you don't ask a girl for her number, and yet you still get it, that's labeled as creepy, and they think your too scared to ask them face to face. So you get put lower on the scale. Think of it this way when you have someone you don't know has your number call you your suprised and don't know what to say, then you think "howd they get this number" and start thinkin they are FB stalking you or something. The other thing is maybe that doesn't happen, maybe the friend knows she likes you and wants you to txt her. I NEVER like asking another person for someones number, I ask personally and to the face, but it doesnt always have to work this way. Quote: I can tell the HB is interested in me, and I don't think it'd be good to keep her waiting keep her waiting, thats what you'll do when you get her number anyways. The point is YOU shouldn't be waiting for HER. Idk if I would tell the friend "I'm really diggin *name* can you give me her number I wanna take her out" because she might like you herself, and its easier to reject you through someone else. (its harder to ask face to face, but its harder to rejected too)To answer your question no its not wrong to ask, but its (WAY) easier to get rejected. |
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| Author: | safety [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 6:50 am ] |
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why dont you try txting the friend.... and setting up a meet, like "hey (friend) how about you, (target) and i go to such and such..." it would probably be better to do it wiht more people or a big event so she wont be a wierd third wheel... i just feel like messagin her friend would create a slight jealousy plot and then that way you could ask her in person. |
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