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Author:  safety [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 2:43 pm ]
Post subject:  girl stood me up, froze her out, now what? txting.
i was meant to meet a girl this morning at the gym (we didnt explicitly say that we were going to go this week but last week we said we should make it a weekly thing)

so anyway i msgd her to say "let me know if you are going to the gym"
she replied "sorry i feel really sick, like cold sick"

so i just didnt reply.

then she messaged me maybe 3 hours later sayin "hey what are you up to today"
so i replied telling her i went to the gym with a friend (showing her she is easily replaced) and was going to file my tax return before football training.
she replied with some bullshit about "wow your productive blah blah, im just studying all day blah blah"
i didnt reply

then i didnt hear from her all day and tonight when i got home from football i had a message saying "night poo" (poo is the nickname she gave me after i told her i was taking a shit one day when she asked what i was up to)

anyway now im wondering where i go from here? should i wait and see if she messages me again? should i send her a message in the morining (its too late to msg her now)

btw im treading water SPAM as last week i acted very afc and she seemed pretty annoyed and has sparsely talked to me since up until this morning.
Author:  charblad [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:14 pm ]
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She obviously still likes you, even a little bit. Most girls dont start txt more than once a day or 2 unless they like you.
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she replied "sorry i feel really sick, like cold sick"
she could be, actually sick lol.
I wouldn't message her but if she messages you actually respond more than once. It seems she wasn't giving one word answers or asking a lot of questions so there wasn't much of a reason to stop replying.
Author:  Don Draper [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:22 pm ]
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You're doing a fantastic non-AFC job so far. From whatever I have read, she's been initiating every conversation, right? If that's the case, brilliant.

But, you got to chip in with your own contributions too. Everyone can be punished a little bit, do not overdo it though.

Be your usual calm, cool self and she'll fall right back in.
Author:  charblad [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:38 pm ]
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Quote:
You're doing a fantastic non-AFC job so far. From whatever I have read, she's been initiating every conversation, right? If that's the case, brilliant.

But, you got to chip in with your own contributions too. Everyone can be punished a little bit, do not overdo it though.

Be your usual calm, cool self and she'll fall right back in.
Isn't it amazing how well people can rephrase what you just said.... lol
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