PUA Forum :: How big of a deal is race/ethnicity in most cases?

Nice, we have people from Southern California here, I want to live there one day and I have some questions

1. Will being Indian alone disqualify me with most women? Like will I have a very rough time landing a 9/10 looks White girl?

2. Do Indian guys face the same limitations Asian guys face out there or are their limitations much much worse?

3. I am more into dating Latinas, Asian women, mixed women and Persian women, are they just as racist as White women out there?

4. Can you give me percentages? Like will one in every 10 girls reject me based on race alone or what?

5. Is it possible for an Indian guy to do better with the ladies than an Italian guy or Spanish guy?

6. You say if you plan on dating outside your own race and are not White, so are you telling me a White guy can easily get an Indian or Asian girl if he wanted?

Author:	Paramount21 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 4:45 am ]
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Like I read all of these articles sometimes which say Indian and Asian guys have to basically be rich and powerful in order to date a girl who is White while a White guy can broke and easily pull an Asian or Indian girl. I live in a small deep south town. Not really around a lot of White people, mostly around Black people. I am Indian (just turned 19 like 5 days ago) and I have not really had a girlfriend before. I live with my parents due to issues in high school (I went to a bad high school which ended up in me going to a local university). Anyways I want to hear your experiences, how big of a limiting thing is race?

Author:	charblad [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 4:49 am ]
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You can do just as good as everyone else my friend, just as everyone else can do as good as you. Race doesn't limit a lot in the dating world, many girls say "ill never go black/white/asian" and end up doing it If your worried about your race its going to show when you approach, race is as big of a deal as you make it Don't make it a big deal, it woulnt be, vice versa

Author:	TheFreshPrince [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 7:01 am ]
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It may depend where you live. I live in Southern California, so nobody cares what your race is, ever, unless you're in Beverly Hills or Santa Ana. Seriously, though, unless it's a super materialistic girl that you wouldn't want anyways, they don't care too much about race or money (at least for most circumstances).

Author:	Mr_Amazing [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 7:26 am ]
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Race/ethnicity can be a huge limitation if you plan on dating outside your race/ethnicity and aren`t White. Anyone who tells you otherwise is probably White. However, it really boils down to location. For example, if you want a white chick, don`t go to an all white club. Go to the club with a diverse crowd, then talk to the white chicks there. Why? Because the chick going to the white club is looking for a white guy, whereas the chick going to the diverse club will more likely be receptive to other ethnicities.

Author:	TheFreshPrince [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 7:32 am ]
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You may be right, Mr. amazing, because I'm white, so I haven't seen the other side of it so to speak. I am, though, going to stick with saying that at least in California, I don't think it's as big of a deal, so location can make a difference. Again, though, that's probably related to your analogy of "white" bars, versus diverse ones, because So Cal is inherently diverse.

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Author:	Genuine [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 7:33 am ]
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It all depends on person... Ethnic background is irrelevant

Author:	Mr_Amazing [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 8:32 am ]
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Quote: You may be right, Mr. amazing, because I'm white, so I haven't seen the other side of it so to speak. I am, though, going to stick with saying that at least in California, I don't think it's as big of a deal, so location can make a difference. Again, though, that's probably related to your analogy of "white" bars, versus diverse ones, because So Cal is inherently diverse. I live in Southern California and although we have diversity, people naturally section off acording to race or income etc. I`ve clubbed in OC and the IE too, so I`m pretty familiar with that scene. Saying race isnt a big deal is like saying looks dont matter. It does matter...its the first thing the girl notices...your physical appearance.

Author:	Paramount21 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 10:43 am ]
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Nice, we have people from Southern California here, I want to live there one day and I have some questions 1. Will being Indian alone disqualify me with most women? Like will I have a very rough time landing a 9/10 looks White girl? 2. Do Indian guys face the same limitations Asian guys face out there or are their limitations much much worse? 3. I am more into dating Latinas, Asian women, mixed women and Persian women, are they just as racist as White women out there? 4. Can you give me percentages? Like will one in every 10 girls reject me based on race alone or what? 5. Is it possible for an Indian guy to do better with the ladies than an Italian guy or Spanish guy? 6. You say if you plan on dating outside your own race and are not White, so are you telling me a White guy can easily get an Indian or Asian girl if he wanted?

Author:	TheFreshPrince [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 1:27 pm ]
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Very cool, Mr. a. I personally love living in So Cal. =D At this point, though, I definitely have to disagree with you from experience. I have many friends who game too, who are black, Asian, Hispanic, etc. And they have no more trouble pulling any type of girl than I do. Pretty much any resistance based on race, speaking from both my and my friends' experiences now, comes from the parents if it's a very traditional family. So if you're looking for a relationship, it's possible you'll get some flak, but it doesn't affect a girl's attraction for you. (Except for individuals' fetishes... )

Author:	Paramount21 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 1:47 pm ]
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and if anyone can answer my questions about southern california, that would be greatly appreciated

Author:	safety [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 2:18 pm ]
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this probably isnt that relevant but in australia we are majority whites and asians. and i mean literally seeing a black/hispanic whatever is very very rare... here girls are very interested in those kind of guys just because plainly we dont see them much, and tv does make them look very cool next to asians and whites its probably indians next (in order of commonality) so idk but im sure if u are trying to meet girls who dont want to give you the time of day based on your race, then your trying to meet the wrong girls.

Author:	TheFreshPrince [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 2:27 pm ]
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So I guess to answer your questions from my experience: 1. No problem. You won't have any difficulty getting whatever girl you want (or at least no MORE difficulty based on race). 2. What disadvantage are you talking about specifically? 3. Again, my friends haven't met any women White, Latina, Black or otherwise to whom race was a factor, so... 4. I'm saying in my area, maybe 1-2% would disqualify you based on race. If you went to Santa Ana, 20%, if Beverly Hills, maybe 10-30%. I think this really depends on area and social circles you're targeting. 5. Of course. It's about how much effort you put forth into learning game. There are naturals and AFCs in every race. 6. It doesn't matter.

Author:	Paramount21 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:35 pm ]
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fresh prince, thank you so like have you ever personally seen an Indian guy date non-Indian girls before?

Author:	Mr_Amazing [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:44 pm ]
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Quote: Nice, we have people from Southern California here, I want to live there one day and I have some questions 1. Will being Indian alone disqualify me with most women? Like will I have a very rough time landing a 9/10 looks White girl? 2. Do Indian guys face the same limitations Asian guys face out there or are their limitations much much worse? 3. I am more into dating Latinas, Asian women, mixed women and Persian women, are they just as racist as White women out there? 4. Can you give me percentages? Like will one in every 10 girls reject me based on race alone or what? 5. Is it possible for an Indian guy to do better with the ladies than an Italian guy or Spanish guy? 6. You say if you plan on dating outside your own race and are not White, so are you telling me a White guy can easily get an Indian or Asian girl if he wanted? 1. No. I've seen Indian guys out here with some hot white chicks. 2. Indians have less limitations than Asians in my opinion. There really aren't many negative stigmas or stereotypes for Indian guys. 3. I think you will do well with Latinas and Asians and Persians...you can even get white women. Its all about location. Go to clubs where all types of ethnicites are partying together and that alone will increase your chances. Also, I don't consider a woman racist if she chooses to date within her race only. She just has a preference. Not a big deal, just walk a few feet past her and talk to the next girl. lol 4. Its hard to say a percentage. But your chances will be very low if you try pick up in a venue where you are the person of your ethnicity there. 5. Absolutely. However, I've noticed the Asian and Indian dudes who have no trouble getting girls are kind of assimilated...as in, they don't have foreign accents and they are extremely westernized. 6. What I'm saying is White people have virtually no negative stereotypes, therefore, when dealing with other races of women they face less limitations. Indian and Asian girls are a bad example because many of them (especially in southern california) exclusively date white guys anyway.

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Author:	TheFreshPrince [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:47 pm ]
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I admit I don't know any Indian guys. At least not well enough to know their dating habits/abilities. But I do know Mexicans, Asians, Blacks, etc, and know that they hook up and have girlfriends of all different races.