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| Author: | bartm [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 2:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | negging |
hi I have 2 questions. 1. When negging, do you say it seriously, or do you make it obvious that you are only joking? for example, "I wasn't talking to you, so don't interrupt when 2 people are talking. I'm just kidding!" or "I wasn't talking to you, so don't interrupt when 2 people are talking. [serious face]" which one? 2. every time I think about negging, I am afraid of hurting the girl's feelings. I mean it's not right to be mean to someone. you are not concerned about this? |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:12 am ] |
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1. Neither of those is a neg, so there is no right answer with your example. A neg isn't an insult, its a negative complement. It's like saying "you're so cute, it's a shame you're not my type." You say something nice, then add something on that leaves a negative tone to it. She can't get mad because at the end of the day you were complementing her. Insults are not negs. That being said, a real neg should be said candidly. It's different from a joke. 2. If you get a better understanding of what negging is, then there's no way to hurt their feelings. |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:25 am ] |
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When you neg, you don't wait for response. Neg, and stack right away to another thread. Also, negs need to be calibrated. If you open a set, the girl is already into you, you don't need to neg her. |
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| Author: | TheNaturalPlayboy [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 11:36 am ] |
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You only use Neg "Negative Comment" when the girl has a huge ego and all men praise her.. Unfortunately it will make you seem that you are different and not make you seem like a suitor! -TheNaturalPlayboy |
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| Author: | scrumpy [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 11:45 am ] |
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It is the situation. If the girl has her bitch shield up I am almost rude about it. Last night I was in field and there was a 9 surrounded by 7's I approached and chatted to the least attractive one. Miss 9 assumed I simply hadn't noticed her straight away and started pushing her cleaveage together to show off a badge that she had got from a train guard get my attention, she even said to me "HEY! Look at this badge" and pushed her (very nice) tittys together. I looked at it and said "im trying to talk to your friend" then said to her friend "is she always like this?" Miss 9 tried to brush off this and played me at my own game, ignoring me. This went on for about 3 minutes, then she put her legs on the table and crossed them right in front of me, clearly awaiting a response. And this is my neg - "Excuse me - you have very nice legs but it's rude to put them on the table. I will speak to you later but right now your friend is much more fun" |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 5:58 pm ] |
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Don't neg girls, problem solved. For clarification, see my other numerous post. |
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