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| Author: | papa_serria_09 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 1:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Back In...Cold Streak advice? |
Hey Guys, My name is Pete and I’ve been on and off PUA forums and books. When things are going well I forget about it and just use my natural game. Then when I hit a slump I inevitably return. In term of picking up girls I am probably the streakiest guy out there. Right now I’m on a serious cold streak. Admittedly there were extenuating circumstances where I was unable to sarge for weeks at a time but the duration of my slump is starting to affect my confidence and is making it even more unlikely for me to succeed. Some background about my game, I would consider myself pretty good looking I am college aged, I usually have no problem kiss closing at bars, clubs, and parties but sometime have trouble getting further even when I’m on a hot streak. I’m going on vacation this week and need some solid tips. My confidence erodes by the day because as I want it more and more I get more desperate and less confident. Thanks in advance, Pete |
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| Author: | einherjar22 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 5:47 am ] |
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advice is get a couple drinks in you only till you feel a little bit of it to loosen up. then use the venues you work best with and go in direct game mode. Dont be too aggressive since your just now re-gaining your confidence level. rejection will happen but get more comfortable with it and soon your confidence will gradually come back and you will get smoother at your game. it become second nature to you and you wont even notice it. Just tiral and error my friend. go for it as much as you can every other day if you want or choose a few days a=out the week to go sarging. dont think too much about it or you will get lost in the sauce and forget about having fun while your doing this. |
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| Author: | M2 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 1:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back In...Cold Streak advice? |
Quote: I want it more and more I get more desperate and less
This sounds like inner game issues more than anything. Why do you need a woman to provide your self worth and confidence? Just be Pete, go in, run your game but be completely independent of outcome. Autonomy is the biggest game changer. If you can work on being confident Pete with no outside circumstances determining it, then you will be confident Pete in any situation. Until then, fake it till you make it. Sometimes it's like a cold pool, just jump in and see what happens. |
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