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| Author: | M2 [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 6:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Not giving a damn, or just being a dick? |
Little background, I have posted about this girl before, but I am straight baffled. First I run pretty solid game, and have results to back it up. However- the girl I am currently seeing seems kind of immune to it. First she has never once initiated contact. However if I do contact she responds immediately (or did) at one point I told her I'd call her at such and such time, was like 13 minutes late calling, so I call, no answer, 13 minutes (to the second) later, she calls....like wtf? We've went out a couple of times, had a lot of fun, but alright so----went out Sunday, had a great time, she refused all efforts towards a local that offered a chance at S1, S2, S3, however, alot of kino and a lot of IOI which grew over time. Monday, I send something like "had fun ect ect" nothing, so eventually I put on my care face (I know) and said, "hey if you don't want to talk cool, it happens, Ill talk to ya later." She then after several hours profusely apologizes, left her phone at home, flirts, wants to go out again ect....then about an hour later, I send a text back (after some interacting earlier) and get nothing.....today (care face again) I send something like "get my messages?" and then follow it up with, "actually just forget about it, its cool, later" So first, what the hell is going on with this chick? Second, this smells a lot like someone playing games and frankly I don't think she's worth it. Third, options? The only thing I can think is either a message or convo that says, "hey, I don't play games, you decide where you want to go" or, just stop giving a shit which I am more inclined to do, I just find it very confusing.....in all honesty I'd rather be a real dick to her for awhile, but whatever, I dont have time for that, plus Karma and all...and, before you ask, yeah I like her, but I don't get played. Period. Little more info on her, Alpha, sarcastic, fun. |
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| Author: | TheFreshPrince [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 9:26 pm ] |
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How long did you wait for her to respond after your first text? By the sound of it, maybe 2 hours? |
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| Author: | M2 [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 9:29 pm ] |
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Quote: How long did you wait for her to respond after your first text? By the sound of it, maybe 2 hours?
Yesterday I sent one at 7 didnt hear shit...so maybe 13 hours+....normally it is spot on.
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| Author: | TheFreshPrince [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 9:36 pm ] |
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Sounds like you've had a bad experience with some woman playing you in the past. This girl, though, is apologizing, which isn't the usual mode of a girl playing you. I'd give her a chance, get together with her, and read her in person. In today's age, we sometimes often expect that everyone texts constantly (especially girls), while I've found that for several girls, that just isn't the case. Try calling rather than texting, and give it another shot. If she puts off getting together, for example, with a ridiculous excuse, then she may be stringing you along, and you should drop her. |
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| Author: | M2 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 11:31 am ] |
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Quote: If she puts off getting together, for example, with a ridiculous excuse, then she may be stringing you along, and you should drop her.
Yeah before I found out about PUA I got played a couple times. In this case, I never heard shit back, so I just told her I didn't want to see her anymore, was sad for five mintues, got a drink with friends, could care less now and didn't hear anything back from her, which in my opinion is a clear sign of guilt.
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| Author: | TheFreshPrince [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 1:35 pm ] |
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I've seen both sides, where I was fully being played, but there were also some amazing girls I just met at a bad time for them, so I try to give girls the benefit of a doubt. But it looks like you've done well. You read the situation and acted and are better for it. Congrats. 
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| Author: | M2 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 1:42 pm ] |
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Quote: I've seen both sides, where I was fully being played, but there were also some amazing girls I just met at a bad time for them, so I try to give girls the benefit of a doubt.
Thanks man, it wasn't a rash action or something done in haste. I didn't burn the bridge, but established clear boundaries and if she wants to get her shit together maybe someday Ill take her out again, if not, the world is full of women. Very odd none-the-less, I can't remember the last time I was played....maybe a decade ago or more. But frankly, I am not some AFC thats going to keep chasing. Attraction and dating is a two way street, you give what you get.
But it looks like you've done well. You read the situation and acted and are better for it. Congrats. |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:19 pm ] |
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Deserve an applause. Sometimes it's just that easy to get over women. I once played a Need For Speed Marathon for 12 hours and I came out of a bad breakup. Strange are the ways we get over women, really.  Good luck ahead. |
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