PUA Forum :: So you like a girl? But she's messin with you

Hard to get has 2 meanings, it depends on how honest you are willing to be with yourself.

1. She needs to feel power by having men come after her. in that case, you make your intention clear and then keep a distance. Nothing is more powerful for us men than to demonstrate to a girl that we are not entranced by her. In other words, don't put the pussy on a pedestal.

2. She has no interest in you whatsoever, avoids interacting with you as much as possible, yet you didn't get the whole message. Guys who have issues with their ego will say hard to get when it really means lost cause.

Either way the solution is the same, cutting off contact and remaining disciplined about avoiding her. In case 1, you find out if she gives a shit by seeing if she takes the 2 minutes of time to call/text you. In case 2, you quit being a stalker.

Author:	DareDevil77 [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 6:57 am ]
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Just what the title say. I really like a person right now but she's really really playin hard to get. How can i bypass her with that? Is it my confidence? or what? We're really open to each other. how can i use it to my advantage?

Author:	Vitamin-J [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 7:10 am ]
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Give us a run down of your interactions and we'd be happy to help. the more detail the better

Author:	DJ_Z [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 7:34 am ]
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Hard to get has 2 meanings, it depends on how honest you are willing to be with yourself. 1. She needs to feel power by having men come after her. in that case, you make your intention clear and then keep a distance. Nothing is more powerful for us men than to demonstrate to a girl that we are not entranced by her. In other words, don't put the pussy on a pedestal. 2. She has no interest in you whatsoever, avoids interacting with you as much as possible, yet you didn't get the whole message. Guys who have issues with their ego will say hard to get when it really means lost cause. Either way the solution is the same, cutting off contact and remaining disciplined about avoiding her. In case 1, you find out if she gives a shit by seeing if she takes the 2 minutes of time to call/text you. In case 2, you quit being a stalker.

Author:	DareDevil77 [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 11:54 am ]
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I'm really close with her so. im not stalking She's one of my closest friend. she told me that i have a chance.. But still she's playing hard She's showing some IOI..

Author:	Don Draper [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 12:48 pm ]
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Unless you are going to be open and detailed about your situation, we can't help you. Sure, we can spout random crap, but that's not what you need. Tell us exactly what your situation is, so that we might be able to help you specifically.

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Author:	Vitamin-J [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 1:27 pm ]
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Quote: Unless you are going to be open and detailed about your situation, we can't help you. Sure, we can spout random crap, but that's not what you need. Tell us exactly what your situation is, so that we might be able to help you specifically. Thank you! We have to know every detail possible in order to give worth while advise.

Author:	pyuya [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 4:38 am ]
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Quote: Hard to get has 2 meanings, it depends on how honest you are willing to be with yourself. 1. She needs to feel power by having men come after her. in that case, you make your intention clear and then keep a distance. Nothing is more powerful for us men than to demonstrate to a girl that we are not entranced by her. In other words, don't put the pussy on a pedestal. 2. She has no interest in you whatsoever, avoids interacting with you as much as possible, yet you didn't get the whole message. Guys who have issues with their ego will say hard to get when it really means lost cause. Either way the solution is the same, cutting off contact and remaining disciplined about avoiding her. In case 1, you find out if she gives a shit by seeing if she takes the 2 minutes of time to call/text you. In case 2, you quit being a stalker. DJ_Z is right on the money. It sounds like she is probably not interested in dating you at the present moment and the best strategy is to look for a different girl. Being a stalker is not going to help you get girls. But, the best strategy is to try to understand he point of view and genuinely agree with it and then let her be alone. Then, she might come back, but only once you've stopped pressuring her and once you have moved on. So I'd say, try to understand her and tell her what you genuinely agree with, and then move on.

Author:	charblad [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 4:56 am ]
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Quote: She's one of my closest friend. she told me that i have a chance.. Shes leading you on for fun, you said yourself your "friends" and shes playing a game by saying "you have a chance". that really means "try real hard to date me and ill laugh at your attempts" and her head gets full of air in the meantime

Author:	Vitamin-J [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 5:38 am ]
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After getting some background in chat, he met her in December has been friends with her for 7 months and decided to start gaming her... for the acf's out there.....this is not how to get a girl.

Author:	Chicoman69 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 7:08 am ]
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Kino, kino, kino... touch her and then kiss her ALL over. This is advice for gaming all girls, not just your oneitis. Learn massage and how to touch girls in a non-creepy way. Best of luck. -Chicoman

Author:	M2 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 11:42 am ]
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Quote: Nothing is more powerful for us men than to demonstrate to a girl that we are not entranced by her. In other words, don't put the pussy on a pedestal. Well played sir. Bravo.

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