We all go through that phase when all we want is to open as many sets as possible, get past the approach anxiety and fear of rejection. If you sarge multiple venues per night, i would suggest you try this: focus on opening multiple sets on the first couple places. Get a confidence boost. Go for the close if possible, BUT, on the last bar you go to, focus on opening 1 set and be as successful as possible. Challange yourself. Instead of you number closing her, try having her number closing you, or even if you dont get her number, suggest her to go back to that place the following weekend or something. Believe me, its way more challanging and interesting to focus on building confort to the point of getting her to ask for your number... BUT its wayyyyyy more rewarding! I prefer to number close 1 solid number on one night, than to opne 10 sets, get 5 numbers, and 1 second day!
I have been involved in this for almost 2 years now. It all started with skepticism and curiosity. I had a girlfriend at the time. We broke up almost 1 year after i got involved in the community. I used to promote nightlife events such as nightclubs, bars, etc. I was always fascinated by the interaction between opposite sexes. I would have fun just looking at guys appoaching girls at the nightclubs i was promoting at. Although i was "studing" pick up theory while i was with my girl, i wouldnt realy apply it. I would meet girls and stuff, number close, but that would be it. When i became single, i decided to go further. Right now, i dont even go "sarge" anymore. Like i said, i go out, i see a group of girls i like, i approach and i usually stick to them. I realized thats the best way of meeting girls! Get a good connection with them, and they will introduce you friends of hers... call you to go out with them, and her friends. You meet up 2 girls one night, next night you meet 10 of her friends... and they make your job way easier ... pre-sellection
