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Author:  bluebison [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 1:26 am ]
Post subject:  What do you do with girls that openly talk about sex?
and when they give hints that they are horny?
Is it an open invitation to just jump in and have fun with her?

or would all of you veterans do something different?
I'm dying to want to get right into sexual conversations with her but I'm also worried it's a bad move? Help!
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 1:29 am ]
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good opportunity to sexually qualify her and handle some asd (non judgmental frame)
Author:  bluebison [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 1:34 am ]
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good opportunity to sexually qualify her and handle some asd (non judgmental frame)
could you possibly go more in depth?
I'm still a novice at this so I'm not fammilar with either term you used :|

2 or 3 examples of Sexually qualifying a girl would be appreciated.
And no clue what ASD is.


thanks though :]
Author:  bluebison [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 1:37 am ]
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she's into sex stories as well I beleive.
I often write those and i'm dying to give her a peice of my work.


***Edit
allright I know what qualifying a girl is
but I still need examples of what sexually qualifying a girl might look like.
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 2:00 am ]
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ask her if she likes giving blowjobs, if she qualifies (answers) give interest off the answer so she is aware she qualifies, OHHH WOW I LOVE ME SOME GOOD HEAD GIRL, im gonna have to stay away from you

ask her if she spits or swallows,

wow takes a real woman to swallow high five!! your my new best friend

or less intrusive shit like, what is the craziest place you've had sex,

OH WOW YOUR CRAZY. I LOVE THAT, BUT MAYBE TOO CRAZY

those are qualifiers,

asd = anti slut defense, girls don't want to look/feel like sluts, disarm this
Author:  Captain Morgan [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 2:20 am ]
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After experiencing several girls like this, I now believe it is a SHIT TEST....I have ALSO found that the girls who talk most openly about it, have the most LMR and are actually more prude.

I think girls who do this are subconsciously seeing how they can 1) control you....2) if you will respond the way most men do, and therefore, showing you to NOT be the "leader of men."

Example-I had a girl tell me to grab her boobs to feel how nice they were a couple weeks ago at the bar, I just shrugged and said, "naaa" with a short smile on my face...she was surprised because it was not what she expected and showed I wasn't just wanting to touch her boobs, which is how she wanted to control me and therefore blow me off because I was like every other guy there.

I am seeing this more and more...she is a temptress and will probably give you the least pussy...lol
Author:  bluebison [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 5:28 am ]
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so from what I hear it's pretty mixed.
I assume I should qualify her a bit but at the same time try to be different from most guys?

difficult.
Wish me luck guys, haha.
If your interested in how the things go out, PM me
i'd like someone to help guide me. Espeically you perhaps cap morgan?
Author:  jurupa [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 8:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What do you do with girls that openly talk about sex?
Quote:
and when they give hints that they are horny?
Drive the conversation to doing sexual stuff with them, ie getting a blow job or actually having sex.
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Is it an open invitation to just jump in and have fun with her?
Raping a girl is a crime. Saying that You can't just jump in like a horny dog. Most girls are turned off by that. You have to do some foreplay with her first even if she is horny. In short you have to be respectful to the girl.

If she is into sex stories give some of them to her. She most probably be more inclined to do more than read them if they turn her on.
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 9:09 am ]
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After experiencing several girls like this, I now believe it is a SHIT TEST....I have ALSO found that the girls who talk most openly about it, have the most LMR and are actually more prude.

I think girls who do this are subconsciously seeing how they can 1) control you....2) if you will respond the way most men do, and therefore, showing you to NOT be the "leader of men."

Example-I had a girl tell me to grab her boobs to feel how nice they were a couple weeks ago at the bar, I just shrugged and said, "naaa" with a short smile on my face...she was surprised because it was not what she expected and showed I wasn't just wanting to touch her boobs, which is how she wanted to control me and therefore blow me off because I was like every other guy there.

I am seeing this more and more...she is a temptress and will probably give you the least pussy...lol
there are two sides to this, from what i see there is two different factors to consider,

1)THE SEXUAL SHIT TEST, something like having a girl randomly offer you her boobs, or just randomly throw out things like I BET YOUD LIKE ME TO SUCK YOUR DICK, OR IM A GREAT AT SUCKING COCK, you should be considering the context in which she is talking about sex, does it seem like she is trying to get a reaction from you? if so it is probably a shit test, but if you have been talking for ohhh, 1 minute plus, and the topic just changes to sex, and she is not seeking anything from you aside from coversation,
then take it as side 2) and SEXUALLY QUALIFY HER, if she qualifies herself to you sexually, you are in, simple as that, she more or less just gave you permission to show sexual interest in her

also on a side note it is also good to lead into any qualifier, seems more natural, just like with standards qualification, sexual standards qualification can be a useful tool to help you escalate
Author:  bluebison [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 11:11 pm ]
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I'm curious WHY qualifying a girl always works/has her trying to proove herself.

Is it a big no no to tell a girl your horny/thinking about her in a sexual way? :wink:
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 11:56 pm ]
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I'm curious WHY qualifying a girl always works/has her trying to proove herself.

Is it a big no no to tell a girl your horny/thinking about her in a sexual way? :wink:
a girl trying to prove herself is qualifying, how would asking a girl to qualify, constantly have her trying to qualify?, was that your question?

qualification is more or less just a tool, by asking a girl questions about qualities she posses that you desire, you can get to know her and find out what about her it is you admire and show interest for her demonstrating that she can provide that value for you, not only that but it gives you indications of how comfortable/attracted to you she is,

if a girl is not willing to answer a simple qualifier that requires little to no investment then it is safe to assume you have little to no attraction with her, if she will sexually qualify herself to you, it shows she is pretty comfortable/attracted to you, chances are laying a chick who is trying to brag to you, ''YEAH I GIVE SUCH GOOD HEAD'', will not be as hard to lay as a girl who say, ''WTF IM NOT ANSWERING THAT FOR YOU''

as for stating your desires, depends on the girl/situation, it is fairly irrelevant, if it comes off congruent most people will put up with that as long as they just assume it is congruent to the way you are but it would probably be wise to cover your social bases, doing something like that can end up getting you blown out (but it can also end up getting you blown)

i often just test waters to see what i can get away with and how far i can push a girls comfort zone verbally/physically, it is probably alot better to over escalate then calibrate it down (possibly get blown out), then to under escalate and get to be friends,

but it is not as if im an expert, i just try to bang girls

thats my 2cents
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