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| Author: | Khrem [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 12:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help with setting up day 2's |
I started pickup like 2 months ago. I didn't really know what to do with those numbers anyways when I first started, so those flakes I understand. I do daygame, and am able to # close fairly consistently as of late. But the last 3 closes this past week all flaked out on me. Each were 20-30 minute sets. They were not blow off numbers. The girls were actually really interested (one of the sets I had to force myself out because she didn't want me to leave). But then I would text them, and no reply. Call them, no reply. Leave a short voicemail. No response. I've actually yet to set up a day 2 yet. I've gotten pretty good with the actual approach and #closes, but when it comes to phone game and setting up to meet again, I'm totally lost. The only thing I can think of is seeding. I go direct and express my intent very clearly. When I seed, I am also very direct. I don't have them "tag along" with some preconceived event. I'll just straight up say, "I think you're really cool, and want to see you again. Let's get together for some coffee later this week." Is there anything I'm missing? I feel like this may just be a fluke. But I want to know if this has happened to anyone else before. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 1:15 am ] |
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ok 1st, cant control the emotional state a woman goes into after she leaves your area, here are some suggestions, INSTA DATES ARE YOUR BEST FRIEND, time bridge (and since you know what seeding is, seed into the time bridge) try to qualify her before time bridge, get her to acknowledge she will remember you (she agrees to time bridge, you say, actually never mind you probably won't even remember me, your optimal response is NO ILL REMEMBER YOU) ping a txt to her within 1 hour past the # close and start a nice short comfort building text re-affirming you will contact her again later all of these could help you mitigate your flakey numbers, but you can never eliminate the problem, usually i think of it in terms of no response = low-no interest who's this? = med interest anything else = interested |
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