PUA Forum :: Asking out a Co-Worker

So I'm going to keep this as short as I can while providng as much information as possible...

I like this co-worker of mine, she is very flirty and touchy(she has a flirty personality). I've decided to ask her out.
Now this is where I need your help, I have these free tickets for a theme park and I wanted to ask her to come with me, but when I told a friend of mine(who is into the whole PUA scene) He laughed and told me I shoudn't.

I didn't go much into it since he had to leave but I really don't know why I shoudn't ask her.

And if I ask her out to the theme park what's the best way to do it?

Author:	SandyKingdom [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 10:48 am ]
Post subject:	Asking out a Co-Worker
So I'm going to keep this as short as I can while providng as much information as possible... I like this co-worker of mine, she is very flirty and touchy(she has a flirty personality). I've decided to ask her out. Now this is where I need your help, I have these free tickets for a theme park and I wanted to ask her to come with me, but when I told a friend of mine(who is into the whole PUA scene) He laughed and told me I shoudn't. I didn't go much into it since he had to leave but I really don't know why I shoudn't ask her. And if I ask her out to the theme park what's the best way to do it?

Author:	Don Draper [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 11:42 am ]
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Quote: So I'm going to keep this as short as I can while providng as much information as possible... I like this co-worker of mine, she is very flirty and touchy(she has a flirty personality). I've decided to ask her out. Now this is where I need your help, I have these free tickets for a theme park and I wanted to ask her to come with me, but when I told a friend of mine(who is into the whole PUA scene) He laughed and told me I shoudn't. I didn't go much into it since he had to leave but I really don't know why I shoudn't ask her. And if I ask her out to the theme park what's the best way to do it? Why does it matter what your co-worker thinks? He's not the decision maker in your life now, is he? And just tell the girl that, "Hey, listen. I have these two tickets to this theme park. You look like someone who'd appreciate the sights and rides. Why don't you come right along. It'll be fun." Be cool and confident while saying this. Don't stutter, even for a second. Don't let her see how nervous you are. Just say it like it's something you're saying. Good luck.

Author:	SandyKingdom [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 7:09 am ]
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Hey, Thanks for your reply man... The one that said I shoudn't ask her out to a theme park was a a friend of mine into the pua scene, he said It woudn't be a good idea. But he probably didn't know what he was talking about then thanks again

Author:	Sykane [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 7:53 am ]
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Quote: Hey, Thanks for your reply man... The one that said I shoudn't ask her out to a theme park was a a friend of mine into the pua scene, he said It woudn't be a good idea. But he probably didn't know what he was talking about then thanks again He's dumb, honestly. If she is already interested in you she'll jump at the chance. I think your friend thinks there isn't any attraction between the two of you, in which case he'd be right.

Author:	Bloodninja93 [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 10:11 am ]
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One of the golden rules about PUA is to never attempt to pick up a co-worker... But let us know how it goes.

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Author:	SandyKingdom [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 6:53 pm ]
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Yeah I understand it carries some risk but it's a temporary job anyway, I don't know though, I've talked to her on facebook and some of her last messages seem a bit dull, I mean the chance of her saying yeah sure seems small now(Don't know if its my brain playing games with me) On the other hand I invested quite some emotional baggage in it I just have to know what she'll say I mean we have fun together we laugh and it's almost always fun when we're working together apart from some silent moments. I'm not an ugly guy.. I'm pretty good looking if I say so myself, compared to her I'm an 8 while she is a 6(this doesn't come from me btw, my friends and sister have told me this) Pff, I'm working with her next friday so i'll try to ask her then.. Btw should i tell her while working, while leaving work or when I just come in(I Think i'm over analyzing the situation hahaha)

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