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Author:  Lava [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:55 pm ]
Post subject:  this quiet girl...what do you think?

I had a post earlier called "Direct Approach" and I may not have been clear in it. I want to know what's the best way to be clear about intentions to a girl who's interested at some level prior risking the friendzone. I'm seeing this girl who's not very comfortable with kino yet gives me at least one or two IOIs everyday, I know I'm well heading to the friendzone if I don't act soon but I'd rather tell her how I feel than bullshit myself be her friend-only and wank over her when I think about her, pretend our friendship is as friendship meant to be. I just don't know what to expect from that approach! She doesn't flirt much (not the sexual type as in not a single sign of sluttiness), a quiet one hard to get talking and slightly shy. her IOIs were over the last week since we met daily:

1- Being easy to meet up with, she would suggest it first sometimes before I've had time to message her.
2- Seeing if im OK when out, not hungry? not feeling cold? etc
3- Inviting me to her place but taking permission from her mum first
4- Telling me her mum liked me (not sure if this is an IOI, wether true or not)
5- When I was talking about a friend leaving, she asked if thats my girlfriend!
6- Telling me hair looks shit today, mentioning it twice, when I see nothing wrong with it.
7- Asking about my horoscope ( I read somewhere that is an IOI as girls believe in that shiz)
8- Re-initiating conversation after some silence, she's so quiet i run out of things to say.
9- Occasionaly teases

Any other girl I would of moved for the k-close, but its her quietness and low reception to kino, Should I tell her tomorrow that I like her? and prove it to her with a kiss close?

Author:  charblad [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 10:09 pm ]
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First off DONT just tell her you like her. Going to a girl and going "here i am on a silver platter, cut off my head or crown me" its easier to cut off your head. Tell her something like "the quiet ones are always the kinkiest", and get into a argument who's quieter, go "yea i guess you arn't quiet, you seem like to much of a "nice girl"(emphasis nice girl)" and talk a little more after that. If you havn't # closed then do it yesterday. Also kino is VERY unique, sometimes you can kiss a girl after 5 mins, sometimes your still on "accidentle" brushing. btw yes #4 is a IOI, when she says that say "yea, I wonder if your parents would like me?" then move on after 2 seconds, let her think about it. Since shes quiet introduce sexual tension, pauses, getting close (make her lean into you, keep your ground) btw NEVER think, "today i am gunna k-close with (name)" because you wouln't, follow 3 second rule because what your thinking is the 2 day rule, which doesnt exist. Anyways to cap off # close and then set up day 2

Author:  Lava [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 11:15 pm ]
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thanks man, some good stuff i should keep in mind

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