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Author:  Crosswizz [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Text help needed ASAP
I've been texting a girl who has a boyfriend and she claimed I'm told me that I'm basically too flirty. The text went

"Imagine having a girlfriend and a guy was texting her the way to chat to me, it would drive you mental! lol x"

I really stuck for a good reply. Anyone got any ideas?
Author:  pumpington [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:14 pm ]
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how about sorry, and go find other girls to game,
or did not realize it seemed that way call me when your single
Author:  Crosswizz [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:15 pm ]
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how about sorry, and go find other girls to game,
or did not realize it seemed that way call me when your single
Fair play ...
Author:  charblad [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:19 pm ]
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First off do you txt her a lot? and do you respond right away? those are actually turn-offs in the txt world. And im pretty sure this is a IOI question, shes asking for you to think as if she was your girlfriend
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Imagine having a girlfriend... the way to chat to me
other than that pumping gave you a line to use.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:19 pm ]
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'' i have a girlfriend as well .. maybe she thinks the same thing'' preselection...

''very mature...but it seems to me im just texting someone ''

'' you already act like im sticking my finger in there .. jezus...i just like to talk''

'' look i just want to talk... and it's just the way i communicate - i don't like boring convos''

'' imagine i have 2 girlfriends .. and this other girl is talking to me ''

'' what if hitler won the war ? what if ? yes exactly !''
Author:  Crosswizz [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:32 pm ]
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First off do you txt her a lot? and do you respond right away? those are actually turn-offs in the txt world. And im pretty sure this is a IOI question, shes asking for you to think as if she was your girlfriend
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Imagine having a girlfriend... the way to chat to me
other than that pumping gave you a line to use.
Well none of this matters now as I listened to the previous guy and just apologized which went against what I believed I should to tbh

No we don't text much, but when we do it is very high energy. Face to face our conversation always flow well and her body language is very obvious. (I lost contact with her and recently got back in touch, there was no awkwardness just flowing conversation, she then gave me a jumping hug and I was holding her up from her bum :roll: )

That was yesterday btw
Author:  charblad [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:58 pm ]
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I never apologize, but of course thats my cocky ass attitude. My friends try to apologize for me and i dont let em XD seems to work for me, but i know what to say and how to say it. i like lodewijkp's because its less indirect. And why would you apologize for being friendly like "you are to everyone else"? (right?) if i go around hugging everyone cuz thats how i pretend to be so i can kino a girl, shes not gunna reject my hug, unless i go "sorry i dont hug pretty women" (which in my view is kinda what you did). The only reason she'd complain about your flirting is if you went to far or you act like it with her and she's seen you different with others. Keep consistency and flirt with EVERYONE (I've never had a girl reject my kino or # close ect. because thats how i am socially, hug everyone, touch everyone, guess what? its normal now, i can touch who i want AND ITS F-IN GREAT (lol))
Author:  Crosswizz [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 10:05 pm ]
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I never apologize, but of course thats my cocky ass attitude. My friends try to apologize for me and i dont let em XD seems to work for me, but i know what to say and how to say it. i like lodewijkp's because its less indirect. And why would you apologize for being friendly like "you are to everyone else"? (right?) if i go around hugging everyone cuz thats how i pretend to be so i can kino a girl, shes not gunna reject my hug, unless i go "sorry i dont hug pretty women" (which in my view is kinda what you did). The only reason she'd complain about your flirting is if you went to far or you act like it with her and she's seen you different with others. Keep consistency and flirt with EVERYONE (I've never had a girl reject my kino or # close ect. because thats how i am socially, hug everyone, touch everyone, guess what? its normal now, i can touch who i want AND ITS F-IN GREAT (lol))
I never apologize either, I dunno why I did it this time, I was just listening to advice and really wish I could take it back (never received a text back...) I am flirty and cocky with pretty much everyone I meet, I am 19 and have a decent natural game, I've been in to this for only a few months (I started with Carlos Xuma, then looked a bit at RSD and I'm now planning to look at MM)

I dont think she has a problem with the flirting, just the fact that I'm flirting while she has a boyfriend. When I'm texting her she seems less interested but face to face we vibe really well.
Author:  charblad [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 10:12 pm ]
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I feel ya i was in the EXACT same situation, girl from school had a bf gave me OBVIOUS IOI's (i didnt know how to game then and i knew it even..) This question is important so i hope you answer it soon. Did she start IOI's and opened you? or where the IOI's mutual and you opened her?
Author:  Crosswizz [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 10:22 pm ]
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I feel ya i was in the EXACT same situation, girl from school had a bf gave me OBVIOUS IOI's (i didnt know how to game then and i knew it even..) This question is important so i hope you answer it soon. Did she start IOI's and opened you? or where the IOI's mutual and you opened her?
I met her as work. I opened her, she was new and I don't even think she noticed me but I walked up to her, introduced myself quickly and asked her if she knew what the 'sub of the day' was (planning to get a subway for lunch). She thought it was one thing, I thought it was the other and I told her I was willing to place a bet on it (even thought I was wrong). Turns out she was right, but I didn't see her for about a week because we had different shift patterns, however she was constantly chasing me through other people asking for the money I owed her :lol:
Author:  charblad [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 10:37 pm ]
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lol if she asks you for the money and keeps talking thats just her easy opener, try this out (really its fun, and tells you a lot) When you meet her face to face and she talk abouts you owing her money turn to the side or take a few steps like your gunna leave or like your talking to an imaginary friend. Obviously if she likes you she'll pursue you and talk about something else, but if she keeps talking about the money I'd think she has a different motive. (btw if feels great when she pursues you and tries to come up with a topic you like). and what i said about kino, i really do live my life like that (everyone should). you never know lol (I get to hold any pretty women's hands because i feel like it, ill never forget this power)
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