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Author:  zappo [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 6:24 am ]
Post subject:  she sort of cheated on me but were not " officaly together"
Hey So ive been "dating" this girl for a good few weeks now its nothing offical but were getting off with eachother and that and it seems like it was leading somewhere good. And Im out with her on a night out , its a themed night where you wear very little clothing ( we were the only people to realy follow the theme so we gained alot of attention) .

And well one lad locked her in against the wall later that night , I watched it with my own eyes in slow mo as he leaned in ( instead of being a big hot head and flipping on the guy and leveling him I watched to see how she would respond to it , I mean Ive been knocking quite a few girls back that evening lets see if she will do the same, as a bit of a trust test) . Well she only went and kissed him back didnt she.

I let it get to me and I got off with some average looking girl in spite.

I was pure weird with her the next time i seen her and just walked out the club with my mate trying to keep my cool. she text me " Hey whats up ? xxxx" Im yet to reply because I feel like i need to ases the situation more and id appreciate an honest opinion or advice .
Author:  AttractionKings [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 6:52 am ]
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It depends what you're looking for bro. A long term relationship? Ftf?

I'm assuming something long term or you probably wouldn't have cared so much. If it were me I'd drop her like its hot. I have a big ego and lots of confidence so I don't like to waste time on girls like that if I'm looking for love, I can find better.

On the flip side I've cheated and have been forgiven. (It wasn't just a kiss too.) In the end it's totally up to you just giving you some perspective.

I think you should just talk to her and see how she feels, maybe she doesn't want the same thing you do.
Author:  Don Draper [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 11:59 am ]
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It was just a kiss. Maybe, she was overcome by the sexuality of the moment. That tends to occur. Sometimes we are driven by our instincts more than our thoughts.

You need to calm down and think about this. Are you willing to lose this girl just because she got frisky with another guy? Also, the fact you went and got off with another girl, "in spite" tells me you sort of like her a lot more than you are willing to admit.

Talk to her about this, tell her what you want for the both of you i.e. exclusivity, if that's your cup of tea. Maybe she will understand, maybe she won't.

Either way you will have the answer of "Where do I go from her?", wouldn't you?
Author:  zappo [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 7:34 pm ]
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Cheers for the feedback guys , I kindo leveled with her , let her send me a few texts and then i responded by stating that " I know where not offical but theirs a degree of respect blah blah blah" and she responded.
"I was extremely drunk , im a player , i might be moving away, i still like you though"

Been barking up the wrong tree again and yeah I kindo was looking for a ltr :\ Feck well this is shit , still going to try and bang her though :P
Author:  DJ_Z [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 11:08 pm ]
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That's why I don't take girls to parties with me unless we are in a relationship or platonic friends. If its any kind of middle ground they will act single. Sorry to hear this happened man, but you did learn a lesson. When you're with a girl, make sure it is clear to both of you what level of commitment you two are sharing. It's a quick conversation, "are we exclusive?" And it makes life much simpler in situations like this. You wanna hook up with another girl after that? Cool, but don't do it to try to make her jealous. That screams insecure.
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