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| Author: | Forcan [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 10:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Should i contact or leave be? |
After reading a bit of the game I got a motivation to pick up a girl i met at my guitar lessons. She's a spanish speaking hotty (although pretty young still) and we used to talk like 3 seconds before my lesson began. A couple of months ago she stopped the guitar lessons, but i was ready to try out my newfound confindence and stuff so I searched for her on facebook. When I added her something like this happened: She: hey it was your birthday a couple of days ago, congrats. Me: Hey, jeah i don't see you around anymore with the guitar lessons She: reason why blabla... how are you? Me: negging her for lack of willpower to carry on, with a wink;) and also telling her that i was doing my last week of spanish lessons (which i was, not for her though) and was searching for something to learn further. Also i said jokingly Ayúdeme! which means help me. she: oh i'd really love to help you with your spanish, or you could come with me on vacation to argentina. Me: wow hold on, we've only just become facebook friends;) she: haha Me well maybe we should grab a drink then. after a few more messages where i couldnt get a decent day to meet her, she gave me her phonenumber which i played with Styles (I think it was Styles) I'll call you - you don't have my number yet- oh thats right but if you give it to me i will. I was going on vacation a couple of days after that (3 weeks) so Itexted her something like: Last chance before my vacation. what about fridayafternoon? She was like, jeah, thats fun. I responded with: Ok, i'll call you friday. however, on friday she didn't respond to my phonecall or textmessages. Afterwards i decided to say nothing and freeze her out a bit and just go on vacation. Now i'm back (came back last week) should I try to get a date again? or ask what happened? In what situation have i landed here:P? |
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| Author: | pleasureseeker [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 10:56 pm ] |
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if it's been a full month since you've last talked to her (3 weeks vaca and 1 week additional) you could try but start over from scratch, she'll have no interest/attraction in you SPAM, it'll be easier in comfort stage then just starting with a new girl though. |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 4:44 am ] |
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Important question time. Did she or did she not try to contact you within that period? Send some message on facebook or something? If she didn't then, I guess there are two roads to go from here. One, she might not be interested, and if you aren't enough too. Forget about her. Two is my favourite, message her and talk to her. Establish a rapport and then tell her how the trip changed you and ACT changed! She'll be hooked but don't tell her how or why. And if she's being persistent, give vague replies. Once you're a changed man, and she can see that, you'll have your second chance. And then, it's up to you whatever you want to do with that. Good Luck. |
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| Author: | Forcan [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 8:23 am ] |
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Great, well, she didn't try to contact me, but it's strange because the words she was using where all like, yeah i really want to, that is fun! blalbalba.. However, I don't even need to lie about being a changed man, because I've been abroad for 3 weeks (on my own, meeting all kind of people) reading books about this stuff (so far i finished "the book of tells", "the game" and i started "Introduction to NLP".) I wasn't that social before, so no way that i am the same man:P. And I also like to be vague about my progressions:P. So no problem there. I'll try and contact her, and keep you posted. It's a learning journey for me to:) |
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| Author: | Forcan [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:06 am ] |
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So hey guys, I contacted her and this is what happened, i'm a bit confused.: Me: Hey, i thought you'd let me know something, so i went on vacation. How are you doing? She: Hey, this is the first time i can be online, i'm in France right now. How was your vacation.? I'm returning monday, so if you're not occupied, shall we go out and meet? So I'm was kind of suprised by this. It went down pretty easy:). Thanks guys, imma get in touch with her and set a date for the date! |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 11:43 am ] |
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Well done. Now, when you meet her show her the changed you. That should get you more and more encounters. Good Luck. |
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