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Author:  Mike1 [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 1:51 am ]
Post subject:  Need help with this semi-oneitis

Ok so I've been going out with this girl for a few weeks now.
She seems to have most of the qualities I look for, in someone I'm interested in for an LTR.

When I started seeing her, I had good attraction, and built good comfort. And the next step is where I feel I made the mistake: I did not escalate early enough with her, and only k-closed a few times. And it's been a total of more that 20 hours that we spent together, in the last few meet-ups.

She was at my place the last time we met, but my escalation met with ASD. I should have frozen her out, but I didn't - big mistake on my part. Since then, I cut off communication for about a week.

Is this a lost case, should I just next her? What would be a good game-plan with this scenario? Thanks for your input.

Author:  AFC Royal [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 4:21 am ]
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Attraction and comfort kinda suck. Make her horny.

Arrange another meetup, and instead of just kissing try and escalate more, make it into something that's just interesting. Push the limits.

Author:  pumpington [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 8:06 am ]
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WTF IS THIS SHIT, she is not showing dis-interest, she is not going non responsive, why freeze out,
MORE DETAILS NEEDED
what kind of ASD you talking about, did you touch her puss?, did you take your clothes off?, have you even made out, or just 1 kiss at a time? NEED DETAILS

Author:  Mike1 [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 7:34 am ]
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Thanks AFC Royal, shall keep your advice in mind. I might actually get a chance to try out that technique this weekend.

I did call her and she called me back. We had a brief chat...and although she agreed to meet up, talking to her was a clear reminder of things I don't exactly like about her.

I think I need to put this one on the back-burner for now and focus on other girls.

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