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Author:  marlon135 [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 11:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Have I been put in the "Friend Zone?"

I'm new to this forum, and it's nice knowing that a lot of people can share insights on other people's game. Very insightful, although it would be great if you all could give me your insights on my problem.

So basically, I had just recently met this girl. Independent, focuses on school, has a very good social life, and not to mention, hella sexy. When we first met, I can tell that we really hit it right off the bat. Her signals were so clear, even an elementary student would of picked it up. She played with her hair, her body language was more "open" towards me, she payed attention to what i had to say, and actually had a lot to say about herself as well. Eye contact was well maintained, and she was smiling a lot. Laughed hysterically at all my lame jokes. Bascically, a lot of the signals that I presume most guys would be sure, that she is interested.

After getting to know her a little better over the past few days or a week, I had noticed that she had a picture of her, and what may of seemed a "boyfriend" on her bbm picture. I asked her about it in a joking way, and this is what she described it to me as: "I've been dealing with him for 6 years, on and off. But honestly right now, i could say that i'm not seeing him. He lives too far, and we argue way too much. Every time i see him, all we do is argue." Okay, now here is where I'm lost. I have no clue at this point, how to go about this. She claims she's "single." Therefore, i see it as "competition."

We've had many conversations, about many things, including sex. It seems as though, she likes to initiate the conversation with me, rather than me texting/bbming/calling her. I could say we definitely have a strong rapport, as she is so open to talk about anything. But that's the thing, what if the rapport has grown too much, to the point where I'm only seen as a good friend. She calls me bro... lol, maybe that's a hint? or I'm just thinking too much.

What really bothers me the most is the fact that I'm seeing CLEARLY all of the signs of her being interested in me. For us hanging out, she is always asking ME to chill with her, and mind you, she is a very smart student who takes school seriously, and has a very busy schedule.

Like I said, maybe it's just me over thinking. Ha. A little help guys? Thanks. Much love to the PUA forums.

Author:  anthonypham [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 12:22 am ]
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Get the hint bro!

Actually she is saying: bro, you should game me! You should escalate, kino me, seduce me. She said clearly to you that she is single. That is a big hint already. Although she mentioned her ex-bf, this is to test you: are you intimidated by this, or are you man enough to stay unaffected and game her?

If you do nothing, or keep things as it is right now, then she will think you are not interested/ not enough guts to game her. Then indeed, you will be in the friendszone!
This can happen very soon!

Author:  AFC Royal [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 4:28 am ]
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I don't get why you would possibly think you're in the friend zone... She seems like she's begging you to fuck her.

Author:  pumpington [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 7:51 am ]
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so were exactly does this put you in the friend zone?, seems high interest to me, what are you waiting for her to lead you into sex?
show some interest, touch her, bang her, good luck

Author:  Don Draper [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 1:15 pm ]
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Stop worrying about some non existent guy. For all you know, he's probably hit by a truck somewhere.

She's been flagging the chequered flag at you. When are you going to cross the line?

Go make your moves.

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