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| Author: | Impetumus [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 10:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | So, there is this girl from work... |
She is beautiful girl, maybe not a 10, but I have to consider her as 10 because of all the attention she gets from her colleagues. I was talking to her, and negging her (I haven't seen other guys do this to her) and then I found out that she has a boyfriend for 3y now. They are kind of in a fight now, and I think that if I play this right she would cheat on him with me (does this makes me a bad person?). However, I want her but I don't know how to start hitting on her, I know how to flirt, but I am still kind of doing cocky-funny, negging material. Do you have any ideas on how to escalate this? |
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| Author: | AttractionKings [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 10:35 pm ] |
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Invite her out. Isolate her. Kino escalate. Kiss close/ f*k close. Also from my experience bro home wrecking is never a good idea. I know people personally who have got jumped straight into the ER for doing stuff like this and it's not worth it in my opinion. If i had a girl for 3 years and u slept with her knowing she was with me i'd probably shoot you, no matter how big you are. Not trying to act tough online its just the reality of it. Hope this helps man. |
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| Author: | Impetumus [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 9:52 pm ] |
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Quote: Invite her out. Isolate her. Kino escalate. Kiss close/ f*k close.
Also from my experience bro home wrecking is never a good idea. I know people personally who have got jumped straight into the ER for doing stuff like this and it's not worth it in my opinion. If i had a girl for 3 years and u slept with her knowing she was with me i'd probably shoot you, no matter how big you are. Not trying to act tough online its just the reality of it. Hope this helps man. I wish it was that easy... Do you mean invite other colleagues out and her so that she can find out who I am outside the work area, and then isolate her or to invite her directly out? Look bro, she's 19, I wouldn't call it home wrecking but a smart life decision... She wasted enough of her teen years with him. Look, if I don't try something very fast they could make up, or even break up, but I can't be sure which of that, so I should act fast... You probably think that I am a bad person, I don't know, maybe I am. Thanks for the heads up... |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 9:59 pm ] |
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Leave her alone. It's a terrible idea to have any sexual relations within your job, it can make things really uncomfertable. Just look what happen to bill Clinton :p Honestly bro, don't fuck up someones relationship, couples fight all the time and they don't need some guy forcing his way in making it worse. Karma is a bitch, if you wanna have a happy relationship one day don't do it. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 11:29 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Invite her out. Isolate her. Kino escalate. Kiss close/ f*k close.
Also from my experience bro home wrecking is never a good idea. I know people personally who have got jumped straight into the ER for doing stuff like this and it's not worth it in my opinion. If i had a girl for 3 years and u slept with her knowing she was with me i'd probably shoot you, no matter how big you are. Not trying to act tough online its just the reality of it. Hope this helps man. I wish it was that easy... Do you mean invite other colleagues out and her so that she can find out who I am outside the work area, and then isolate her or to invite her directly out? Look bro, she's 19, I wouldn't call it home wrecking but a smart life decision... She wasted enough of her teen years with him. Look, if I don't try something very fast they could make up, or even break up, but I can't be sure which of that, so I should act fast... You probably think that I am a bad person, I don't know, maybe I am. Thanks for the heads up... YOU ARE BLINDED BY ONEITIS, he doesn't mean invite her out with colleges, YOU KNOW THE FASTEST WAY TO GET LAID?, when you meet a girl, NO MATTER THE FUCKING GIRL, if you run game correct, and she actually is attracted to you, you should be able to, GET EITHER AN INSTANT DATE THAT DAY, or TIME BRIDGE to a date at a later time, you want from a girl to qualify herself to you, so you can show interest in her when it is socially acceptable, (also her qualifying is basically her verbalizing/telegraphing interest in you), next you need the isolation (so does she flake or will she be alone with you) i stopped trying to get girls out for fun dates a long time ago, that is something you do for a low interest girl, you just invite girls to your house for dinner, or for a movie, or come up with something else, THE GOAL IS SEX, SO GO FOR SEX, NOT FUN OUT ON THE TOWN, next thing, THE SOONER YOU DO THIS THE BETTER, i have noticed that guys find reasons to qualify girls, where as girls find reasons to dis-qualify guys, the longer it takes you to have sex with her, the less likely it will happen, after a while you see situations like you have k-closed a girl, it seems like it's so fucking on, THEN YOU SAY OR DO 1 THING SHE HATES, and BAM!!! she starts flaking and won't talk to you, interest level drops completely, only time can heal this shit (freeze outs), so go for the F-CLOSE as soon as possible, once you have it, girls put up with a mountain of shit, they forgive so much, YOU CAN GET AWAY WITH SOOO FUCKING MUCH AFTER F-CLOSE, but before it, it's like your on probation one fuck up and GAME FUCKING OVER next thing stop being a douche, a three year relationship is a real deal, how would you feel if that was your GF and douchebags all over were trying to fuck her behind your back?, not all girls cheat, some do, and the ones that do, are not worth any time to invest in, hit up some clubs/bars it is easy to get laid at a packed club, just follow a compliance ladder and after you get a kiss, keep asking them to come to your house, if they even seem into you and you are too puss to go for kiss ask them home, if they go home with you it is obvious why, unspoken agreement to sex |
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| Author: | M2 [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 11:55 am ] |
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Quote: Leave her alone. It's a terrible idea to have any sexual relations within your job, it can make things really uncomfertable.
I couldn't agree more. BF destroyer or home wreckers are no good, but the fact she works with you as well? Why shit where you eat? Plus work game is different, its easier with girls already in relationships, it's a safe place for them to get their ego boosts |
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| Author: | Impetumus [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 10:57 am ] |
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Right, karma is a bitch. I don't know guys, before I got in The Game, I would NEVER, EVER think of trying to seduce a woman with boyfriend. And now, I think that I am better than most of the guys who have GF, and therefore I deserve their girls... :-\ I know it's wrong, but I got that feeling of power now, and I think I am abusing it. So, okay, I won't try to seduce her, but if I get a chance at her, I will do it (in my way, since I am not getting a lot of positive feedback here) If she isn't happy in a relationship, I feel obligated to interfere... I'll keep you posted... |
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| Author: | Impetumus [ Thu Aug 18, 2011 11:40 pm ] |
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Quote: Leave her alone.
It's a terrible idea to have any sexual relations within your job, it can make things really uncomfertable. Just look what happen to bill Clinton :p Honestly bro, don't fuck up someones relationship, couples fight all the time and they don't need some guy forcing his way in making it worse. Karma is a bitch, if you wanna have a happy relationship one day don't do it. Hey guys, she broke up with her boyfriend, and I'll see her tomorow. I thought that if I don't speak about her boyfriend that she'll get over him easier. So, my plan is to basically do what I do with every other girl, but to keep in mind that she has an ex she is very fond of, so I need to cut him from my conversation, I DHVed already, teased her, lowered her value, she even commented that I am full of myself (but in playful manner, not offensive). So, I think it's now legit to seduce her, right? So now, when we have moved the technicality out of the way, you can give me some pointers... And don't worry, karma doesn't bite... |
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| Author: | M2 [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 1:22 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Leave her alone.
It's a terrible idea to have any sexual relations within your job, it can make things really uncomfertable. Just look what happen to bill Clinton :p Honestly bro, don't fuck up someones relationship, couples fight all the time and they don't need some guy forcing his way in making it worse. Karma is a bitch, if you wanna have a happy relationship one day don't do it. Hey guys, she broke up with her boyfriend, and I'll see her tomorow. I thought that if I don't speak about her boyfriend that she'll get over him easier. So, my plan is to basically do what I do with every other girl, but to keep in mind that she has an ex she is very fond of, so I need to cut him from my conversation, I DHVed already, teased her, lowered her value, she even commented that I am full of myself (but in playful manner, not offensive). So, I think it's now legit to seduce her, right? So now, when we have moved the technicality out of the way, you can give me some pointers... And don't worry, karma doesn't bite... Work pickups kind of suck man. Why shit where you eat? I would still leave it alone and you if you're going to bird dog, you best do it fast |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 5:50 am ] |
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I don't there is any 'special' pointers required for her. Just game her the way you would any other woman. |
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| Author: | Impetumus [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 8:01 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: Leave her alone.
It's a terrible idea to have any sexual relations within your job, it can make things really uncomfertable. Just look what happen to bill Clinton :p Honestly bro, don't fuck up someones relationship, couples fight all the time and they don't need some guy forcing his way in making it worse. Karma is a bitch, if you wanna have a happy relationship one day don't do it. Hey guys, she broke up with her boyfriend, and I'll see her tomorow. I thought that if I don't speak about her boyfriend that she'll get over him easier. So, my plan is to basically do what I do with every other girl, but to keep in mind that she has an ex she is very fond of, so I need to cut him from my conversation, I DHVed already, teased her, lowered her value, she even commented that I am full of myself (but in playful manner, not offensive). So, I think it's now legit to seduce her, right? So now, when we have moved the technicality out of the way, you can give me some pointers... And don't worry, karma doesn't bite... Work pickups kind of suck man. Why shit where you eat? I would still leave it alone and you if you're going to bird dog, you best do it fast I don't work there anymore, it was just a job I was doing to finance saturdays night, so there is no reason why I wouldn't do it now. There isn't any reason why I wouldn't seduce her. So, any special advice? |
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| Author: | Impetumus [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 8:07 am ] |
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Quote: I don't there is any 'special' pointers required for her. Just game her the way you would any other woman.
Yeah, but she is now really emotional, and I thought that I should probably spend more time with her, to call her out, to go on coffe, and so on. My game plan is to actually be with her a lot of time, and to minimize ex-boyfriend talk. I guess that most of people will like to talk about her feelinngs, and such stuff, but me, I'd like to call her out so that she gets over him. I haven't ever dated a girl who recently broke up. Should it be easier or harder? I guess that she needs more time then other girls... :-\ |
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