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How to avoid being PLAYER stereo typed?????
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Author:  mother_fucker_2000 [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 5:42 am ]
Post subject:  How to avoid being PLAYER stereo typed?????
Friends;

You should know this so you can give me better tips:
I am quite attractive and ALWAYS have a playful smile on, colored hair, leather jacket and skinny jeans, nice body and very happy, usually get girls easy, many girls look at me in public BUT!!!!!!!!!

One very intresting yet dissapointing vibe/look I receive from some HBs (before I even approach or even talk to them) is that "as soon as I look at them, they give me a 1 second look and see me noticing them", then they turn their head with a look like: I KNOW YOUR TYPE, I KNOW YOU ARE THE PLAYER AND YOU GET GIRLS,,,, BUT NOT ME DUDE NOT ME!DUDE YOU REMIND ME OF THE PREVIOUS DICK HEAD WHOM I SLEPT WITH JUST CAUSE HE WAS COOL & GOOD LOOKING!!

I see they want it as well but, they categorise me into I guess player/asshole/motherfucker stereo type! I am sure they like me cause they look at me until I look back, then they break it, so they do enjoy what they see.

Does this sound familiar to anyone? What would you fellows recommend?

Thanks dudes
Author:  charblad [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 6:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to avoid being PLAYER stereo typed?????
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as soon as I look at them, they give me a 1 second look and see me noticing them, then they turn their head with a look like: I KNOW YOUR TYPE, I KNOW YOU ARE THE PLAYER AND YOU GET GIRLS,,,, BUT NOT ME DUDE NOT ME!DUDE YOU REMIND ME OF THE PREVIOUS DICK HEAD WHOM I SLEPT WITH JUST CAUSE HE WAS COOL & GOOD LOOKING!!

I see they want it as well but, they categorise me into I guess player/asshole/motherfucker stereo type!
Wrong, thats what you categorize yourself as. I suggest you think every girl goes "I KNOW YOUR TYPE, I KNOW YOU ARE THE PLAYER AND YOU GET THE GIRLS, YOU PICK AND CHOOSE WHO YOU WANT,,, WHY DONT YOU TALK TO ME! AM I NOT HOT ENOUGH? DONT I SEEM NICE?"
and when you walk away doing nothing they categorize themselves as worthless, not hot.. ect.
Your games not good because you dont expect it to be, if i went into a room and thought "everyone hates me and doesnt want to talk to me" Id feel like crap but if i went in a room and went "EVERYONE HERE LOVES ME, i feel like these guys are my BEST FRIENDS, LOOK THERES MY GIRLFRIEND! (the girl you choose out of the crowd to approach)" then you'd be better. LIVE YOUR LIFE RECITING THAT SENTENCE.
Author:  mother_fucker_2000 [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 6:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to avoid being PLAYER stereo typed?????
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as soon as I look at them, they give me a 1 second look and see me noticing them, then they turn their head with a look like: I KNOW YOUR TYPE, I KNOW YOU ARE THE PLAYER AND YOU GET GIRLS,,,, BUT NOT ME DUDE NOT ME!DUDE YOU REMIND ME OF THE PREVIOUS DICK HEAD WHOM I SLEPT WITH JUST CAUSE HE WAS COOL & GOOD LOOKING!!

I see they want it as well but, they categorise me into I guess player/asshole/motherfucker stereo type!
Wrong, thats what you categorize yourself as. I suggest you think every girl goes "I KNOW YOUR TYPE, I KNOW YOU ARE THE PLAYER AND YOU GET THE GIRLS, YOU PICK AND CHOOSE WHO YOU WANT,,, WHY DONT YOU TALK TO ME! AM I NOT HOT ENOUGH? DONT I SEEM NICE?"
and when you walk away doing nothing they categorize themselves as worthless, not hot.. ect.
Your games not good because you dont expect it to be, if i went into a room and thought "everyone hates me and doesnt want to talk to me" Id feel like crap but if i went in a room and went "EVERYONE HERE LOVES ME, i feel like these guys are my BEST FRIENDS, LOOK THERES MY GIRLFRIEND! (the girl you choose out of the crowd to approach)" then you'd be better. LIVE YOUR LIFE RECITING THAT SENTENCE.
Fuck dude!!!!!"Thank you". I believe what you mentioned above is the ultimate key to win any social challenege, but sometimes we need to be reminded. I have come a LONG way since I started, I dated Brezilian perfect 10 for 2.5 years, the more I applly this attitude the better results I got. The biggest challenege for me is my peer group, people around are So dead and negetive, still not a good excuse but it makes a difference to be around YOU persoanlly, or someone who is even against approach!!!

Anyways thank you for reminding me. One more question, how come YOU joined this forum? With this mindset of urs you should be cruisy getting laid all the time,.
Author:  charblad [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 4:52 pm ]
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lol I joined this forum to help, and i have a LOTTT to learn still. I've been serious about PUA for like 3 months. so im not that good at it, that and I dont do the bar scene and i have some trouble remember to do things like kino in the moment XD
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