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| Author: | Superalex929 [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 1:50 pm ] |
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I Have known this particular girl for 3 and a half years now. we first met in school. Shes 17 nearly 18. Im 16. nearly 17. All her boyfriends have always been older and she is an emotional attention seeker. Her boyfriend who she has now and her argue alot and she comes to me for the 'supportive' shoulder. I always try to help her when I can and she says she appreticates it and wants me there. And she feels like she can trust me and she tells me nearly everything. She sees me as a good friend and she has placed me in the 'LJBF' Zone. I have 'oneitis' with this girl and her boyfriend recently messaged me saying: " alex i dont think the way you talk to heva is appropriate n if i was you, i would go arround talkin to older lads girlfriends like you do, its no a smart thing to do, ive left it a few days to see if your gonna stop n you havent, she doesnt like it, she'll ignor you for ages when you text her so jus back off " I have recently tried to start gaming her esepecially via msn. She has said ' Nothing can happen between us because im with him :/ ' She also says that she cant do anything with me like go shopping with me because shes with him. She always makes excuses when I try to meet her. We talk regularly and generally for a long time on facebook, msn, twitter, text. etc. She is the best relationship with a girl I have got in my life at the moment. Whats ur advice guys? |
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| Author: | d27sld [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 2:08 pm ] |
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Really sorry to be the one to tell you this, but sound's like yu've already messed this one up... I feel for you buddy. Once you are in the friend zone, it's hard to get out. Can take over a year! Also you could end up ruining your reputation, being as her current boyfriend is texting you... it's an alround bad situation. The only I thing I could think of would be to find a way to escape on a positive note. E.g. do something that will get her thinking about you. But I cannot think of a thing! Bit of advice for the future, I always make sure the girl does the majority of the exting, e-mailing etc. I leave long periods between messages and always make the day finish on one from her. This will mean that she is waiting for the reply (and therefore thinking about you) for the night. Also I only suggest jokingly about meet-ups, let her put the peices together and actually get on board with it before I say yeah ok lets do that. If you straight out ask she'll often say no. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 2:12 pm ] |
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you can not be with her at the moment, it is clear, she seems to have limited interest in you, but more interest in her boyfriend, she will not cheat on her boyfriend with you, cut contact with her, if she re-initiates be more direct, ask if she is single, if she says no still with my BF, then say i can't talk to you until your single, ive had a crush on you for a long time, being around you makes me feel weird, and im not sure i can control what i might do around you. Your relationship that you are happy with could be ruined.(leave it at that if she trys to qualify herself with anything besides come hang out with me or come fuck me or im going to leave him then go non responsive and cut contact, minimum 2 weeks) for the time being, go game more girls, lots of girls, YOU SHOULD BE LIKE A DAMN SPIDER DUDE, SET A WEB AND TRY TO CATCH AS MANY FLIES AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN, dooooooo not give 1 specific girl any attention more then another due to any reason, looks or her showing interest or anything, until she sleeps with you, then she deserves re-assurance of how much you value her, and she deserves more attention then the other girls in your WEB, (especially this girl you like don't talk to her anymore at all, minimum 2 weeks) to be a successfull guy you must be like a spider and understand that women are like monkeys, they treat men like branches, they don't let go of one branch until they have a hold on the next one, and when it comes to the web do yourself a favour and make sure you have contact with a bare minimum of 10 girls, this should help you, if you get the slightest hint of disinterest from one, cut contact for 2 weeks, and replace her with a new one, hope this helps eventually you will notice patterns between the multiple girls and find ways to mitigate problems and see that certain attack plans are working, eventually your whole web will begin to submit and you will be understanding better |
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| Author: | Hinduplaya [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 5:56 pm ] |
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agreed. stop contacting this girl immediately. cut all relationship with her. it will be hard, but it will be a lot harder to keep on trying. you can only work on yourself, work on other girls, and ignore this girl right now. the future is a different story but the future takes months. |
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