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Author:  BijanSwag101 [ Sat Jul 23, 2011 11:53 pm ]
Post subject:  What's wrong with me?-can't talk to girls but guys
I can talk to any strangers, yes I really do. I just realized that I got this kind of talent on how to approach strangers on public and just ask them some random questions (or the same used-question over and over again).

But that only happened if the stranger is a guy. For instance, I was in a train and there was this guy about the same age as mine, standing next to me. I opened to him just by EC, smile and ask "where your destination?" and we talked.

I just can't do that on girls. Especially if my family members was around that area. Why??? Why can I talk to a guy stranger but I can't even open a line or say 'hi' to a fucking GIRL?!

in b4 i'm gay. No I'm not. I know myself better than anyone else. I'm pretty sure i'm straight. I just wanna change my mindset and start talking to girls on the street, like seriously. I can talk to guys, why can't I talk to girls, right?

What makes me like this? I just don't understand myself. :P

Please excuse my bad English. Not a native English speaker.
Author:  anthonypham [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 2:07 am ]
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talking to a guy is safe, because you are just being nice and you have no further plans.

Talking to a girl is risky, because you think she will think you are trying to hook up with her. Therefore you feel a bit awkward.

There is no need to feel awkward talking to girls. Pretend the girl is a guy, you just have a convo.

This is all in your mind. No one else will notice this. Change your mind, and you will have more fun in life!
Author:  thisismekd [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 2:28 am ]
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maybe u gay
Author:  HeyWhatsUp [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 2:30 am ]
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I was gonna say gay, but then you wrote you're not so maybe you're secretly gay :D
Author:  thisismekd [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 2:50 am ]
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I was gonna say gay, but then you wrote you're not so maybe you're secretly gay :D
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Author:  Bsquared [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 3:49 am ]
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Hey man, it's perfectly normal to do what ur doing. Girls in terms of evolution are the only way to reproduce, so ur mind says "if I fuck this up my chances of mating goes down"
There is only two ways to fix this:
-get laid before your 16
-go out and talk to the ten hottest girls you see, do this day after day no matter how grueling and painful until you can do this with ease.
Author:  pumpington [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 7:19 am ]
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you're ga.... oh wait nm,

its your mindset, you are thinking of an outcome off the approach (when you think of approaching the girl you are in your head thinking, my goal when talking to this girl is romantic, what if she does this, what if this happens etc.) the trick is you have to get outside your head, think only of having fun, the 1st girl of the day should be a hurdle, but once you open the 1st one, you start to gain social momentum, before you know it that day you will be going out of your way to talk to more girls, i suggest one day if you want to run daygame and talk to girls, just make a concious effort to try and get 5 sets to reject you, open with ''excuse me, can you do me a favour? (wait for them to say yes) can you blow me out? (when they answer they usually are confused and don't know what that means) say, you know tell me to fuck off, or reject me or something, you will realize some sets will start trying to talk to you and won't reject you even when your trying, should help you get out of your head
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