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Author:  mastvin [ Fri Jul 22, 2011 7:13 am ]
Post subject:  validating seeking behavior vs. genuine attraction?

Let's say an ex randomly contacts you after a few months of no contact, 99% its probably just to seek validation? Is it always like this with an ex? Can you genuinely get back together with an ex without her in some way, shape, or form about seeking validation as opposed to genuinely being attracted?

Author:  Jits138 [ Fri Jul 22, 2011 6:44 pm ]
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Those are not mutual exclusive.

Author:  Chris2k10 [ Fri Jul 22, 2011 9:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: validating seeking behavior vs. genuine attraction?

Quote:
Let's say an ex randomly contacts you after a few months of no contact, 99% its probably just to seek validation? Is it always like this with an ex? Can you genuinely get back together with an ex without her in some way, shape, or form about seeking validation as opposed to genuinely being attracted?
100% it's because she wants your cock..or misses your cock. ANY interest from a girl is sexual.

Author:  mastvin [ Sat Jul 23, 2011 10:18 am ]
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so in your opinion, is fucking an ex ever worth it?

Author:  charmingattraction [ Sat Jul 23, 2011 3:06 pm ]
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can you give us more details in how the relationship finished?

who broke up with who?, did it just die down or was it a problem that killed it? Did you or her see other people in between?

Author:  Soren K [ Sat Jul 23, 2011 8:06 pm ]
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Is dating an ex worth it?

Depends where you're at...

If you've tightened up your game since you broke it off, she's got her shit together, you've searched high and low and she's the hottest thing on the block, you have your skills to the point where you can get a threesome together, I could keep going on in this running sentence style followed by a comma after every point, which is grammatically incorrect.

You get the hint. Write a personal pro and con list. Use pleasure and pain as the motivation.

Good Luck unlocking the truth

Author:  mastvin [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 9:02 pm ]
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yeah she ended it because she was graduating from college and i still have another 3 years to go so she gave me some bull about wanting to focus on her career or something. yeah thats a good idea i think ill do that, she hasn't contacted me since and this was about 2 weeks ago but i'm assuming she'll contact me again soon. otherwise i dont think im going to go through with making the effort to contact her. sound good?

Author:  Soren K [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 7:57 pm ]
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Yeah, cut contact. Don't it personal and move on.

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