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Author:  youngsweetjones [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 1:43 pm ]
Post subject:  improving sexual confidence/prowess
hey everyone,

i've been in contact w/ a fellow PUA via e-mail & his latest e-mail brought up an aspect of PUA that i feel i'm lacking in my game: sexual confidence/prowess. i'm fairly confident in bed; however, i have trouble conveying that in my pick-up. i just want to know how i could incorporate sexual confidence/prowess in my game prior to actually getting them in bed. as of right now, my game is heavily predicated on charm (physical appearance, intelligence, humour, etc.) but i understand that this aspect of pick-up is crucial & i want to improve it drastically.

here are some of my questions:
i) how do you incorporate sexual confidence/prowess in your game?
ii) how much of it is verbal & how much is non-verbal (body language & kino)?
iii) which books would you recommend to help me improve this aspect of my game?

any overall opinions/insight/feedback on the topic of sexual confidence/prowess is more than welcome.
Author:  Kupid [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 1:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: improving sexual confidence/prowess
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i) how do you incorporate sexual confidence/prowess in your game?
Talk about sexual topics and

Make sexual statements, that indicates that you're interacting with her for a reson of you two hooking up togheter, statements like:
- I'm just trying to get into your pants.
- If nobody was here, I would just bend you over that table and taken care of business
- Is your BF gonna be mad that I'm trying to fuck you
- Yeah that's cool, we can just be freinds, I'm still attracted to you and I'm still gonna try to fuck you, but I would love to be friends with you.
- ...
Quote:
ii) how much of it is verbal & how much is non-verbal (body language & kino)?
Imo non-verbal is about I dunno say 70% else is words, tonality and other things
Quote:
iii) which books would you recommend to help me improve this aspect of my game?
Fearless relentless escelation written by 60 Years of Challenge



Hope it helps ;)
Author:  Sparroww [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 1:57 pm ]
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Search for and read up on sexual escalation and sexual tension. A lot of is is non-verbal, but you can do build quite a bit of tension verbally as well. I can't think of any books specifically for this, however I do know that Captain Jack has some good stuff on his blog about it.
Author:  youngsweetjones [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 12:33 pm ]
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@ kupid

thanks for the tips man, i'll try them out next time i sarge.

@ sparroww

duly noted, thanks man.
Author:  ProfessorX [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 5:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: improving sexual confidence/prowess
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i'm fairly confident in bed
Fairly confident doesn't cut it! She doesn't want "fairly confident" she wants multiple orgasms.. You have to know, ABSOLUTELY KNOW that you can rock her world in the sack. This takes study, practice and an open attitude towards sex.

Once you know you can destroy this chick in bed, you sexual confidence will start to flow.
Author:  youngsweetjones [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 6:06 pm ]
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ah ok. yeah, i've managed to give the last line of women multiple orgasms, but i never thought of it that way, i like that. thanks man.
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