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Author:  blizzard1 [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 12:50 am ]
Post subject:  Got HB10 number.. lolz there is no way there is hope for me
This chick gets so much attention its disgusting. I added her on facebook every photo 50+ comments. Her ex boyfriends are rich with houses, bikes, cars, tons of friends of parties ( got it all from her wall and pictures ) how the fuck am I supposed to compete with that?

1. I'm a 6/10 normal looking
2. I work for 8 bucks an hour
3. I still have anxiety and my face blushes a lot
4. I have ZERO cool fun friends ZERO

so wtf how do I smash?
Author:  Spike007 [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 2:25 am ]
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Quote:
Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.- Henry Ford
Nothing else to say.
Author:  0uch [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 8:43 am ]
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Check out RSD - BluePrint. Is about 20 hours long.

You can take the provider route. Having money and buying her nice things, etc...
Or in your situation.
Take the "Seducer" route. Basically friends with benefits. Which is what Pick Up gurus teach.

Important thing you should know is hot girls have guys buying them things all the time, they have jobs, and even there parents get them stuff. She does not need anymore guys buying her crap or try to provide for her.

Also, is a ok movie. But check out a movie "SPREAD" with Ashton Kutcher. He is a bum with no job or house and he sleeps with bunch of women.
Author:  Don Draper [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 10:13 am ]
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People see us, the way we see ourselves.

So, basically, if you think that you are a loser and you cannot compete with her ex-boyfriends, well you can't.

The fact that you let their material possessions affect you tell me how low your self-esteem is.

There is no equality. People are rich, and people are poor. Some are smart, some are idiots.

You have to limit your ability to be influenced by people or their possessions.

There is nothing that cannot be achieved, no girl is out of reach. Just stop focusing on what her exes had and start focusing on what you can do with her.
Author:  jurupa [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 12:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got HB10 number.. lolz there is no way there is hope for me
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This chick gets so much attention its disgusting. I added her on facebook every photo 50+ comments. Her ex boyfriends are rich with houses, bikes, cars, tons of friends of parties ( got it all from her wall and pictures )
And? So what if these guys got money and shit. They are all stepping over each other to get this girls attention. Let them. And so what if she got 50+ comments on her pictures. I bet you she doesn'tt mean half of them anyway. And I bet most say the same stuff.
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how the fuck am I supposed to compete with that?
You don't. If you try to compete in their arena you will loose. Just send her a unique message and take it from there. You most probably have a higher chance getting this girl than the other guys as your not using money to get her. She will see you are not bring up how you have such and such car and what have you. And more than likely she will like a guy not using his money to get her. Now this is assuming she isn't materialistic. Now if she is best to next her really as she will drain your bank account quickly or walk at the first sign of you not having any sort of money.
Author:  blizzard1 [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 7:35 pm ]
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thank you
I understand the money and materialistic things but how do I approach the fun part? Not having fun friends or parties to bring her to?
Author:  xiaolinpua [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 12:44 am ]
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Hey man, this whole community is to guys like you who start out not knowing much and learn the ropes over time. One girl thats like her is always a prize but there will be a million others as well. There is no post that will just make you know what do do instantly, just read and practice my man. Good luck!
Author:  jurupa [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 1:06 am ]
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thank you
I understand the money and materialistic things but how do I approach the fun part? Not having fun friends or parties to bring her to?
Make your own fun. You be surprise how much fun one can have by playing pool one on one. Or take her hiking or something. Taking her away from her normal thing/scene will set you apart big time from the other guys. You don't need parties and fun friends. So what if your friends are not as fun as these other guys. They are not the same guys she hangs will and there is a good chance she will find it refreshing to hang out with different type of guys. You may be amazed at how being from other guys at how well it works when it comes to girls.
Author:  HeyWhatsUp [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 1:23 am ]
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Anyway, looking at comment amount or likes a girl has by a picture doesn't mean anything at all. You have ugly friendly people with 2000 friends that will get hundreds of comments or likes and it won't mean they are hot. You can have hb 10's with barely 10 likes/comments, plus it's only f-ing facebook :?
Author:  cahill4554 [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 7:19 am ]
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Your attitude tells me you will NEVER fuck this chick. Honestly with your pitiful attitude you don't stand a chance in any way. You ought to just delete her number and save yourself some time
Author:  xiaolinpua [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 12:26 pm ]
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cahill- If he deletes every girls number he gets then how does he learn from his mistakes? Dont get ridiculous and jump down his throat because thats not what our community stands for. He is new here so let him breath a little.

blizzard- you are probably going to make mistakes but you will learn from each of them, just keep in mind that you dont really have any attatchment with this girl so if it doesnt work shrug it off any move on to the next one
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