Okay, I'm in a pretty unique situation I think, and I have no clue how to proceed with this girl. First, a little background on me. Btw, this is a long story. If you do not want to read it, I'll understand lol.
I'm usually your typical AFC, but I've been getting much better with my game lately. Although, I don't use PUA techniques for seduction, or rather, I haven't needed to, since I've been in a committed relationship for 4 years. However, that's all changed lately. With me and my gf fighting a lot, I've decided we need a break. But my gf is not the focus of this.
As for a background on this OTHER girl: I met her in my CNA class at university (let's call her Jess), where I'm quite popular with my fellow classmates (99% being female). I'm always telling fun stories, being cocky/funny, demonstrating values, etc..being overall a good time for everyone who sits near me. Anyways, I didn't really talk to Jess at first, unless she brought up something during group conversation, but I decided to get her # anyway after closing a few other HBs. She also gave me her Facebook, so I made sure to look at her profile for interests and whatnot. A couple things stood out: 1) She's very photogenic (1000+ pics), 2) She's really flirty, 3) Despite points 1 and 2, she's actually very shy and soft spoken face-to-face, and 4) she's engaged.
Not that I really cared about her story, honestly I was busy working over another HB. But I decided to be friendly and posted on her wall. Next thing I knew, we had a 51-comment conversation about which celebrities we wanted to fuck. We sent a few playful messages over PM after that too. Still, I wasn't really reading into it much, especially since I knew this was normal talk for her.
However, later on that night, I noticed she put a status up saying she was stressed out (mind you this was 2am, while I was at work). So I texted her and asked if she was alright. She told me she and her fiance were fighting and she couldn't sleep. So I thought to myself "fuck it, I'm getting off shift in an hour, I'll just invite her out to iHop on a whim. give her a fun time to forget about her dick fiance". So I did just that: invited her to breakfast to get out of the house and have some fun. Boom, she said yes, "i'd love to". So I picked her up, we had some chocolate chip pancakes at 4am, built some rapport, kino, etc (and I stayed away from the topic of boyfriends/girlfriends as much as possible, although seeing as she just broke up with him earlier that evening, some talk was unavoidable). It was fun, and totally unexpected.
Since then, she's always talking to me in class, texting me, etc. She's also always by my side in class and lab. It's not consistent though, which is weird. i.e. I feel like she's pushing/pulling, as some days she'll be very flirty, lots of kino/touching/play-hitting (side note: she's a martial arts instructor =D). Some of the other class mates have actually noticed too, and joked about us being like 12 year olds, or, "when's the wedding party?" Other days, however, she's more distant and withdrawn, takes forever to answer my texts, if at all, etc. Like wth, am I being played, or am I doing something wrong on these days? Anyways, moving on....
A few examples of the texts we've had:
(after telling me she hit her head)
Me: Jeez, accident prone much? Want me to kiss your boo boo better? haha
Her: Um idt ur gf would like that very much
Me: What I'm more interested in is if you'd like that very much?
Her: I'd love someone to kiss my boo boo...
(days later)
Me: Know what I want?
Her: ?
Me: Some ice cream.
Her: Omg me too
Me: Ice cream if you scream
Her: Lmao but I'm not a screamer
Me: Then what are you?
Her: a moaner
Me: I like moaners. Congrats, you passed.
Her: i'm glad
Okay, so I can only remember the corny ones, but she eats that shit up (according to her friend, she lost it on that second one lol). You get the idea. One thing to keep in mind, she's like this even though she knows I have a girlfriend (I haven't let on fully yet that I'm on a break, since we're always off and on. though I'm curious to see if that will change anything for the better, since she's admitted to screwing around in the past when she and her fiance were on a break). We've already gone out on play-dates a few times, very casual, nothing romantic. Tonight, we're going to see "Horrible Bosses" at the cinema.
Yes, yes, I know a movie is a terrible date idea for PUA, but it's not like this is our first time out and getting to know eachother, plus there's lots of raunchy humor and sex in this movie, which doesn't hurt, right? lol I was also thinking about telling her that my gf are on a break, so she can stop tip-toeing if that's what she's been doing the whole time, but I don't want it to sound like "hey, guess what, i'm single now and this is a date" sort of thing and make it awkward, and furthermore, I don't know what types of routines I should do to build attraction (both tonight, and in general from now on).
Again, I don't even know if she's really into me, but she hasn't been hanging out with other guys this exclusively (she's actually turning down guy after guy, since word of her breakup is leaking out, every cock with legs is after her), and she is always looks forward to the next time we can hang out. So, what do you guys think I should do?
P.S. Probably the most important piece of information: This is just about hooking up. I'm not looking for a relationship (neither is she, I don't think), since we have way too much baggage and could use something fresh to clear our heads.[/b]