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Author:  Sevo1987 [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 4:49 am ]
Post subject:  *Updated* I have a serious question. Need some Insight
Hey guys, I'm new to the forum but not the game. I had been introduced to David Deangelo about 4 years ago and he changed my mindset, perspective and attitude toward picking up and seducing women. Now I haven't been able to sufficiently practice this material as I have been going in and out of long term relationships, not as many casual relationships. I'm Russian and I moved to Canada about 3 years ago. I recently ended a 2.5 years relationship and just trying to get back into the game and PU. Since I have had difficulties to find a wing man I wound up going to clubs by my self. Now the fact that I'm going out by my self is really affecting my inner game as it brings down my confidence. I was wondering if it's weird to go out by your self?
Also while going out I had acquired a few #-closes. Although for some reason they never answered my calls but that's a completely different topic.
Thanks in advance.
Author:  LD [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 9:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm new to the forum and I have a serious question.
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Hey guys, I'm new to the forum but not the game. I had been introduced to David Deangelo about 4 years ago and he changed my mindset, perspective and attitude toward picking up and seducing women. Now I haven't been able to sufficiently practice this material as I have been going in and out of long term relationships, not as many casual relationships. I'm Russian and I moved to Canada about 3 years ago. I recently ended a 2.5 years relationship and just trying to get back into the game and PU. Since I have had difficulties to find a wing man I wound up going to clubs by my self. Now the fact that I'm going out by my self is really affecting my inner game as it brings down my confidence. I was wondering if it's weird to go out by your self?
Also while going out I had acquired a few #-closes. Although for some reason they never answered my calls but that's a completely different topic.
Thanks in advance.
Hi dude.

Its all in your head. Do you think its weird to go out by yourself? i surely think not. Back in the days where i had lots of free time, i went by myself 80% of the time. Made 'friends' on the spot, never ever messed with my confidence, au contraire! The more i did it, the more confident i grew. Fuck what other people think. I went out and made friends, got numbers, got lays and went wild.

that is what you should do. Fuck what other people think. Does it really matter that much to you if we think its weird? Because the only person it should matter to is you.

have fun, cheers!!!
Author:  Sevo1987 [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 11:11 am ]
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Well I went out tonight and it turned out to be a crazy freakin' night. I went to a club tried to open few sets and it seemed like it wasn't going anywhere. At some point I found an hb7 standin with some dude at the bar. So I come up to her and ask her if he is her boyfriend to which she responded "no".
Me: "Are we going to talk or just keep flirting from the distance"
Hb7: "laughed... I like you"
Amog( who was trying really hard) " are you disrespecting me....?"
Me: "It's all good bro"
I pulled her aside and we danced a bit I teased her alot.
Hb7:" let's have 1 more drink and we will head over to my place"
Me:"sounds like a plan"
Amog comes back and starts talking to her.
I got up pulled her closer to me and said something and that's when that ass hole sucker punched me and fled the scene. So I'm typing this as I'm waiting for my stitches...
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 11:34 am ]
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job well done sir, job well done, progress in the making
Author:  Sevo1987 [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 10:42 pm ]
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I think the following post should be in a field report, however, it has a strong correlation with my previous post.
I decided to go to a couple malls to see if there any decent women to start conversation with. After wandering for an hour I noticed a cute girl (5.5) working at the cloth store. There were two girls and a guy working there. I approached the cute one with this:
Me: "Hey can I get your opinion on something, how would you perceive a guy wearing a pink shirt"
Her: "I would find him a douche bag"
Me: "That's a bit harsh don't you think so? In my opinion a guy who is wearing a pink shirt is trying to convey a strong message of his confidence in his sexual orientation"
Her: "I would still think he is a douche bag"
I kept on wandering around the store for a little bit to let her digest and talk with her co-worker.
Her: "You know what, my co-worker agrees with you"
Me: "You know what, I like her more!"
So I talk with the other female co-worker and the dude and the target tagged along for the conversation.
Me: "Too bad I can't smile properly, otherwise you would be seeing a huge smile on my face right now"
Co-Worker: "Oh what happened?"
Me (told them about that douche bag at the club and that I had to waste 4 hours in emergency to get stitched up) While I was telling that story all three of them were hooked up.
So I go back to the target and continue the conversation. Eventually I decided to go for a #-close.
Me:"I would like to continue this conversation at other time as I have to leave now"
Her:"How would you suggest we do that?"
Me:"Punch in your number and I'll call you"
Her:"I have to tell you that I have a boy friend"
She starts telling me something they were doing the preceding night.
Me:" You mentioned you have a boyfriend, aren't you being presumptuous? All I offered was to talk"
Her:" You are right, I wanted to make this clear that's all."
She punches in her number.

Ok now it leads me to my questions.
Was that a shit test? How the hell should I proceed from this point? I have never encountered a situation like that before.
Author:  Sevo1987 [ Sun Jul 17, 2011 12:38 pm ]
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Guys I really do need an advice on how to proceed form this point. In case she does have a boyfriend but still interested in me, where should I take her.
Author:  Don Draper [ Sun Jul 17, 2011 12:54 pm ]
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Completely ignore that fact. If you will, she will too.

Just do your normal routine.
Author:  Sevo1987 [ Sun Jul 17, 2011 1:03 pm ]
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Completely ignore that fact. If you will, she will too.

Just do your normal routine.
It may sound like a stupid question. Do I just take her on a regular date or invite her to a bar?
Author:  Don Draper [ Sun Jul 17, 2011 1:22 pm ]
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Whatever you do, tell her. Don't ask.

"I'm going to be at so-and-so place tonight. Come join me."
Author:  Don Draper [ Sun Jul 17, 2011 1:22 pm ]
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But, before you use that be sure to build some attraction and comfort with this girl through texting and calling. Otherwise, it would just be a case of too much, too fast.
Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Sun Jul 17, 2011 3:45 pm ]
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As far as going out by yourself goes you definitely learn more, at least I do anyway. If I go out with a crew it's easy to get lazy, I'll too-hard-basket girls much quicker, but if I'm by myself I'll persist because I got no one else to talk to anyway. Last night I went out by myself and number closed this girl, but it was hard work to get some momentum with her 3 set, if I was with a crew I would've bailed after a few minutes.

Yea my inner game drops slightly but this is easily cancelled out by the extra motivation I have to keep sets warm.

And going out by yourself and getting a SNL I think is one of the most satisfying pick-ups there is. You walk in there with nobody, and you walk out with a HB.
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