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Author:  paladien [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 4:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Hitting a guy who's hitting on your girl, acceptable or not?
hi

when I was younger, I always hated it when another guy groped my girlfriend. like, when we were playing ping-pong on a holiday and had fun, some other, older dude would come stand behind her hold her hand and swing the ball with her.
I just standed there as an afc smiling like I thought it was funny and like I was not offended.

I have grown older, and went to the gym and got bigger. Shit like that doesn't happen to me anymore.
however if it does happen, I wanna go up to him and smack a fist across his face and tell him to "FUCK OFF"
I really wanna do it, so much that I even deliberately try to act afc to get some guy doing that shit to a girl I'm gaming.

What do you guys think?
Or do I take this alpha shit a bit too far.
Author:  Don Draper [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 4:51 pm ]
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I can relate to that.

But, you're already too alpha now that they don't hit on your girls, do they?

Be content. Don't take this too far.
Author:  Brasco [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 5:01 pm ]
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Hitting a guy who's hitting on your girlfriend, is maybe the first thing you think about. It depends on your girlfriend if you have to be afraid of it or not..
Still, how badly I would maybe want to hit the guy, I still wouldn't do it.

But hitting a guy who's hitting on the same girl you're gaming is a bit weird imo, what do you think she would think of you? (Since she's not your girlfriend).

Maybe you should follow some kickboxing lessons to get this anger out.
Author:  pagan_goddess [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 5:11 pm ]
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As a female, I don't find that attractive in the least. It shows too much insecurity and doubt on your part. It also shows a bit of a problem with anger. I know the feeling, but there are healthier ways to express it, such as the kick boxing classes previously mentioned. I do Krav Maga, it's pretty brutal and high energy.
Honestly, it sounds more like you just want to fight and don't have a reason. You don't have to fight to prove how much of a man you are with your fists, use your intellect instead. If a guy starts gaming your girl, think about this: if she is that easy to take away right in front of you, what is she doing when you aren't looking? Is that someone you would really want to spend your time with?

Good luck! :)
Author:  ProfessorX [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 5:54 pm ]
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Insecurity and violence don't add up to Alpha.
Author:  succubus85722 [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 6:06 pm ]
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I can tell you this.....I have a close friend that got "gamed" by a female player. He thought that he was going to get married (one-itis) as he was getting divorced but then his best friend fucked her too and the "best friend" rubbed it in his face. Now he feels used and "gamed" but the best friend is no longer the best friend at all. He can't get past it and I feel for him but the world is not kind and people can really be "dog eat dog" more often than not. I suffered from "nice guy" syndrome, no more, no fucking more...............
The funny thing is that the girl is probably ROTFL her ass off on how she just duped 2 (and probably more) guys. I saw her for what she was from the get-go. She is a malicious gamer and is a horder and collector of men.
Author:  paladien [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 6:53 pm ]
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Insecurity and violence don't add up to Alpha.
if violence is not alpha, then why are girls naturally attracted to aggressors?

I think violence is a male thing, a rival thing (the strongest man survives)
Girls want a man who can protect her.

I think saying that violence is not alpha, is politically correct though. However it's not biologically correct.
what do you think, please explain why violence is not alpha
Author:  Kupid [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 7:13 pm ]
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This is what you do

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmMBrjtMMfs[/youtube]

8)
Author:  tedwood [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 7:14 pm ]
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Insecurity and violence don't add up to Alpha.
if violence is not alpha, then why are girls naturally attracted to aggressors?

I think violence is a male thing, a rival thing (the strongest man survives)
Girls want a man who can protect her.

I think saying that violence is not alpha, is politically correct though. However it's not biologically correct.
what do you think, please explain why violence is not alpha
You would have thought with your 408 posts on this forum that by now you'd have a good idea on female psychology. Studies have shown time and time again that women are attracted to LEADERS. NOT aggressive men, not violent men and not men who start fights for no reason. They want a man that people look up to and admire. In a sense it's how a man talks and behaves around people that really gives a sense of whether a girl will be attracted to you.

Now in regards to this post I think you're just venting your anger from a previous occasion and when you were an AFC. You feel as though now you're bigger and better with women you want to 'avenge' yourself. Just forget about that time that guy took your girls hand because back then you didn't know how to handle it. However if it does happen again, just either grab your girl away from him or say something to your girl.
Author:  paladien [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 7:22 pm ]
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This is what you do

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmMBrjtMMfs[/youtube]

8)
thanks 8) hahah awesome! ♥
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Insecurity and violence don't add up to Alpha.
if violence is not alpha, then why are girls naturally attracted to aggressors?

I think violence is a male thing, a rival thing (the strongest man survives)
Girls want a man who can protect her.

I think saying that violence is not alpha, is politically correct though. However it's not biologically correct.
what do you think, please explain why violence is not alpha
You would have thought with your 408 posts on this forum that by now you'd have a good idea on female psychology. Studies have shown time and time again that women are attracted to LEADERS. NOT aggressive men, not violent men and not men who start fights for no reason. They want a man that people look up to and admire. In a sense it's how a man talks and behaves around people that really gives a sense of whether a girl will be attracted to you.

Now in regards to this post I think you're just venting your anger from a previous occasion and when you were an AFC. You feel as though now you're bigger and better with women you want to 'avenge' yourself. Just forget about that time that guy took your girls hand because back then you didn't know how to handle it. However if it does happen again, just either grab your girl away from him or say something to your girl.
Thank you. and you're right about the venting part. thanks for showing an alternative.
Author:  zappo [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 10:28 pm ]
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It is acceptable to hit the guy but only after you go up to him and explain that shes your girl ( your being polite)

he ignores it you state that hes being disrespectful and if he does it again you deck him . 3 strikes
Author:  realworksuks [ Wed Jul 13, 2011 12:22 am ]
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Reading that story about the guy grabbing your girl's hand while you are sitting there pretending to laugh made me cringe. Glad you don't tolerate that anymore, I would have told that chick to take a hike.

I can relate to the story though... I used to have a girlfriend that appeared to be oblivious to other guys hitting on her. Pissed me off. Guys would talk to her on MSN messenger back when it was big and always talk about having sex with her... and she acted like they were only joking unaware of their real intentions, or at least she acted like it.
Author:  mivear [ Wed Jul 13, 2011 1:25 am ]
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It is acceptable to hit the guy but only after you go up to him and explain that shes your girl ( your being polite)

he ignores it you state that hes being disrespectful and if he does it again you deck him . 3 strikes
I agree - i would not do that probably, but i think that fists should follow words.
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Wed Jul 13, 2011 2:19 am ]
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just walk past the guy and whisper "i'm not afraid to go back to prison"
Author:  BMaster [ Wed Jul 13, 2011 3:06 am ]
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If a guy is grabbing your girl's ass just walk up to the guy and grab his ass, give him a taste of the gay version of his own medicine. Then say, "Do you like it when I grab your ass?", and just hold his ass until he stops touching your girl, eventually he will get uncomfortable and leave.
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