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Author:  succubus85722 [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 3:25 am ]
Post subject:  When You Don't Have to Game Anymore

This may seem like a simplistic question but I am asking it anyway. What happens when the successful PUA has all the girls/relationships he wants? Does he stop propsecting/gaming. I would assume that some, not all, will get to this place. I used to be in sales and a few people would say " I don't have to prospect anymore because I am getting so much, I am tossing the 'leftovers' to others". Imagine that: I have 30 girls so, hey , Bruce (or whoever), here, take some of the extras.

Author:  Ghost ;) [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 3:29 am ]
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you should go out any way just to have fun. if you actually do have everything you will

truly be congruent with the abundance mindset. plus if your on focusing on getting the

girl you can just create a fun night

Author:  succubus85722 [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 3:35 am ]
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Thanks for the reply. I have only been studying this material for about 2 weeks now and getting really good results so far. My goal is to keep practicing in field and getting to the point where I have "internalized" the knowledge and have truly made it mine. It is starting to work, imagine 2 months and they 2 years from now.

Author:  mivear [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 11:44 am ]
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i m not a Mpua and i have not been able to have all the girls i wanted.

Part of my game was having this sexual energy and the " you know we are gonna have sex in 5 minutes" vibe, so since i got into a LTR my gaming skill (which already were low) got even worse...

The fuel who i needed to burn my desire is now burned for other passions, my LTR and such.. i still go out, i still have fun but like an old guy ahhahahahha

but now i know the way to some success, i m just out shape.

i think that if you become good you ll be able to find a solution by yourself, like Ghost suggested...

Author:  succubus85722 [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 2:59 pm ]
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I like the information in the "60 year" method, read Gunwitch and understand it but I think I would use that information in conjunction with other methods, as a stand alone it does not suit me. Then again, each of us is different. I am having a blast though, just like being young again and learning something new.

Author:  Dennis Miedema [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 4:15 pm ]
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Don't want to be the devil's advocate here, but when you have everything you want... are you ambitious enough?

For the game to be played is the game of life my man, and everything that attracts women to you can attract the right circumstances (and people) into your life so you can improve other areas of life. I mean, why not?

Plus, I've come full circle with women and unfortunately, you have never "arrived." Standing still is actually the beginning of failure, as the mindset of having arrived leads to you becoming sloppy, which leads to mistakes, which leads to failure. As they say in my country: vanity comes right before your downfall (in Dutch: hoogmoed komt voor de val).

And where is the fun in having nothing challenging in your life anyways?

Author:  Don Draper [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 4:56 pm ]
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Don't want to be the devil's advocate here, but when you have everything you want... are you ambitious enough?

For the game to be played is the game of life my man, and everything that attracts women to you can attract the right circumstances (and people) into your life so you can improve other areas of life. I mean, why not?

Plus, I've come full circle with women and unfortunately, you have never "arrived." Standing still is actually the beginning of failure, as the mindset of having arrived leads to you becoming sloppy, which leads to mistakes, which leads to failure. As they say in my country: vanity comes right before your downfall (in Dutch: hoogmoed komt voor de val).

And where is the fun in having nothing challenging in your life anyways?

So, by your analogy every man who has ever settled down is 'non ambitious'.

Just be glad your father never believed in that.

Author:  Dennis Miedema [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 11:44 am ]
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Yes by my analogy every guy who settles down is not ambitious as in... you can use the skills gained FROM the dating game OUTSIDE the dating game. Not doing that is making other areas of life harder for yourself than they need to be.

Who said my father settled down by the way? By your analogy having children equals "settling down."

Author:  H!j!nx [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 3:30 pm ]
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Yeah, I agree with dennis that u can apply what you learn outside of actual pick-up. Not doing so actually seems limiting. . .I actually have a sales job, succubus, and I'm trying to apply some ideas to see if I can increase my # of sales. . .

Author:  jekis1sv [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 5:49 pm ]
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And where is the fun in having nothing challenging in your life anyways?
Yes, I agree with you Dennis, I believe that every man should be ambitious to be a real man

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