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Author:  ryry [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 5:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Some Rules i have noticed you Need... Take Note
1. It's not enough just to be normal, you have to show that you're normal

2. Confident body language is Key

3. If you don't want to answer a question, Don't. Reverse the Question back to her, or just swiftly move on.

4. Without good eye contact and Kino escalation attraction, unless already attracted it is hard for sexual tension to take place.

5. Talking too much about yourself is an instant dlv, and in way is bragging. Talking too much about her is boring and nothing anyone wants to do. Keep the convos 50/50

6. Be prepared to take risks, or be prepared not to improve.

7. Don't talk to sets you're not attracted to. What's the point?

8. Have Fun, SMILE :).


add more if you can think of anymore to add
Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 6:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Some Rules i have noticed you Need... Take Note
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5. Talking too much about yourself is an instant dlv, and in way is bragging. Talking too much about her is boring and nothing anyone wants to do. Keep the convos 50/50
This was one thing I picked up before I got into PUA but haven't read much on since. Talking about yourself too much is a bad idea and it can turn them off real fast, the only time you can get away with it if you're VERY good at story telling and I only met a handful of guys that can pull it off.

I think you're better off talking 100% about her than 100% about you definitely, I've K-closed girls who knew absolutely nothing about me cause I just kept focusing the conversation on her. I don't think the best ratio is 50/50, I think it's more like 80% her, 20% you.
Author:  ryry [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 7:11 pm ]
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Yeah dude you can base the whole conversation on her, However you do need to giev youre opinion on the matter.


Which in a sense is talking about yourself :)

You got any to add onto the rules i couldnt think of anymore lol
Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 7:21 pm ]
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Always be kino escalating 8)
Author:  skills360 [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 7:52 pm ]
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One thing that works we move is disagreeing with her and letting her know when i do, in other words do not be a yes man...
Author:  ryry [ Sun Jul 10, 2011 12:33 am ]
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9. Always have you're own opinion, even if it disagrees with her. Women appreciate Honesty.

10. Don't try and Convince, you have you're own opinion and that won't change. Why should hers.
Author:  bobskin [ Sun Jul 10, 2011 1:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Some Rules i have noticed you Need... Take Note
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7. Don't talk to sets you're not attracted to. What's the point?
to improve your game? don't get me wrong, i'm completely new to all this, but if you're not attracted to a set surely you're less likely to care about the outcome of the conversation. so wouldn't you be more relaxed or whatever, therefore improving inner game and fluidity? i'm more thinking about this in terms of people like me who don't have much game and a bit of approch anxiety etc...
Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Sun Jul 10, 2011 3:40 pm ]
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Yea I agree you shouldn't just be opening HB's you should be opening everything that comes within a few metres of you. Not just for practice but it's good social proof as well (or whatever it's called)
Author:  ryry [ Sun Jul 10, 2011 7:47 pm ]
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This are rules i've noticed about day game. I suppose that would work at night, for social proof but you cant social proof in day game.

And to practice by speaking to girls youre not attracted to is stupid.

What are you gonna learn. You'll end up getting with girls you dont like.

You experience an anxiety when speaking to girls you like, so to overcome it you ned to speak to only girls you like, so that you become situated with the feeling.
Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Mon Jul 11, 2011 6:58 am ]
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This are rules i've noticed about day game. I suppose that would work at night, for social proof but you cant social proof in day game.

And to practice by speaking to girls youre not attracted to is stupid.

What are you gonna learn. You'll end up getting with girls you dont like.

You experience an anxiety when speaking to girls you like, so to overcome it you ned to speak to only girls you like, so that you become situated with the feeling.
If you've ever done Styles 30 day lifestyle challenge then you'd see the value in opening sets even if they aren't hotties, especially for guys with AA. I never used to open anybody, but when I was reading the book and he says to open 5 people every day I found that I was opening hotties almost by accident. Opening people I wasn't interested in definitely made it easier to open people I was interested in.
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