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I went out with a mate and we had a great night I only had one drink all night!
We kept the conversation between us positive and full of energy and soon two girls started to talk to us. They were not really in the Hot Babe level but it was good social practice we spent the night talking to them.
The issue was that when we moved to another bar with them yes it gave us social proof as most other guys around us were looking at us wondering why we had women and they didn't lol BUT I spotted a HB9 blonde dancing and i swear she was looking at me more than once she was with her friend who was a HB1.
The issue was as we were with these other women i felt it was difficult to just leave them and walk up to the HB9 (maybe thats just my excuse). I was trying to syc my self up to approach the HB9 when she finaly left with her friend I was shaking very dissapointed with my self but over all a good night and ill be out tomorrow in reading with any luck.
How would of you guys dealt with the situation?
These girls were giving us social proof but also acting as a cock block to.
Thanks in Advance
Tyler
yo tyler. We kept the conversation between us positive and full of energy and soon two girls started to talk to us. They were not really in the Hot Babe level but it was good social practice we spent the night talking to them.
The issue was that when we moved to another bar with them yes it gave us social proof as most other guys around us were looking at us wondering why we had women and they didn't lol BUT I spotted a HB9 blonde dancing and i swear she was looking at me more than once she was with her friend who was a HB1.
The issue was as we were with these other women i felt it was difficult to just leave them and walk up to the HB9 (maybe thats just my excuse). I was trying to syc my self up to approach the HB9 when she finaly left with her friend I was shaking very dissapointed with my self but over all a good night and ill be out tomorrow in reading with any luck.
How would of you guys dealt with the situation?
These girls were giving us social proof but also acting as a cock block to.
Thanks in Advance
Tyler
was it really difficult to leave the other two or was the hb9 a bit too impressive? Be honest here
. It might have been a combination, but anyway, those two girls were only a cockblock in your head, another excuse to not to approach the chick you thought was hot. I know the feeling though. In the beginning, it was actually bad. But i eventually dealt it in my head. I thought something like: Hell man!! Will you go already! Even when i was totally shaky and had this feeling that it would end up bad, i went anyway. And mostly, the anxiety was smoothed out after the first Hi.
So, i would have gone in, no matter what. The worst thing that could happen was something you could laugh about next week.
Cheers!
