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Author:  phangan [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 3:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Telling girls that you have a GF
OK, question -

What do you say about telling a girl during a PU that you have a GF who you are not planning to break up with but that she allows you to be with other women because you are a very sexual guy, and that as long as nobody knows about it, she is OK with it.

It demonstrates pre selection.

It disarms her "this guy will want to be my boyfriend" mechanism. that it's just a ONS.

It tells her that you will be "discreet" about it.

That you are HYPER sexual.

That you are super Alpha for having a girl that allows you to do this.

What do you guys think? Is this a good MO?

EDIT - I think this might be very powerful but requires EV for someone who won't think that you are "morally" corrupt or anything. I would say the second you feel a girl is open about a ONS and just needs her "consequences switches" turned off - you should go out with this script. It can escalate things quickly.

I'm going to try this, if you have anything to add let me know.
Author:  AFCdego [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 3:47 pm ]
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Absolutely not in nearly every case.

When a girl says she has a bf it means words to the effect of I'm not interested.
When a guy says it, it says the same thing in reverse.

If you then continue to hit on her it will trigger alarms as to "why would he tell me he has a gf and then keep trying?"
Her rationalisation to this would probably be to the effect of he's a wanker or he's trying to show off to me. On top of this the girl who is caught with a cheating boyfriend is instantly labelled a slut - big alarm bell!

And you may argue that saying you are in an open relationship negates the above, but she would still probably think you are showing off.

I think the better bet is, if she asks and only then, note that you are seeing other women but it isn't serious.

Shows that you are alpha, have preselection and value. Just make sure you don't sit on the topic long - the more throwaway it is to you (action of an alpha) the more she will think you are an alpha.
Author:  TheMagicalHindu [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 3:53 pm ]
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I think your best bet would be to ignore the fact that you have a girlfriend (but don't deny it), unless she brings up a boyfriend, at which point you could illustrate your open relationship.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 3:58 pm ]
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Yeah, open relationships are not that common, and it is probably even less common for a person to admit they like the idea at the risk of being labeled a slut. Besides, I feel like that would just take a long time to say and I'm not trying to give any speeches about myself when I'm talkin to a girl.
Author:  phangan [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 4:10 pm ]
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I don't have a GF... I was just thinking about the idea of telling a girl you are safe for a ONS because nobody is going to know and she doesn't need to worry about you becoming a stalker.

More opinions from advanced guys?
Author:  TheMagicalHindu [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 4:51 pm ]
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Quote:
I don't have a GF... I was just thinking about the idea of telling a girl you are safe for a ONS because nobody is going to know and she doesn't need to worry about you becoming a stalker.

More opinions from advanced guys?
Simply, no. That is hurting your chances when you are getting with her, it might help you feel as though you are advancing while sarging, but it'll put you in the "safe" (aka friend) zone.. so that when some random guy tries to creep on her, she'll come to you. Still, she ain't doing anything with you.

If you really want to pull that, your best bet is to play it as though you have recently left a relationship. This makes you seem stable enough to have a girlfriend, yet not a cheater. At the same time, it implies that you would be fine with some rebound sex/1 night stand, which will get you the hotter/sluttier type that you seem to be going for.
Author:  anthonypham [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 9:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Telling girls that you have a GF
Quote:
OK, question -

What do you say about telling a girl during a PU that you have a GF who you are not planning to break up with but that she allows you to be with other women because you are a very sexual guy, and that as long as nobody knows about it, she is OK with it.

It demonstrates pre selection.

It disarms her "this guy will want to be my boyfriend" mechanism. that it's just a ONS.

It tells her that you will be "discreet" about it.

That you are HYPER sexual.

That you are super Alpha for having a girl that allows you to do this.

What do you guys think? Is this a good MO?

EDIT - I think this might be very powerful but requires EV for someone who won't think that you are "morally" corrupt or anything. I would say the second you feel a girl is open about a ONS and just needs her "consequences switches" turned off - you should go out with this script. It can escalate things quickly.

I'm going to try this, if you have anything to add let me know.
Hi Phangan! Thanks for contributing to this forum.

I think you are confused with 'pre-selection': Pre-selection is when other girls like you, your target will think you must have some qualities. This can make you more interesting to her. Pre-selection is something the target sees and perceives, it is not something a guy tells her.

Saying you have a gf, is no pre-selection. Since you are no potential anymore to the girl. She will immediately see you as a potential friend. Will it lower her protection shield? Yes, and you will be received in the friends zone immediately!
Author:  Herne [ Thu Jul 07, 2011 12:33 am ]
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and yet there are a lot of women out there who are competitive/predator steal someonelse boyfriend types to give there egos a boost--it could work on them
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