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Author:  Indie00 [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 12:21 am ]
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OK, I didn't want to give it all away in the title.
But basically, how do you deal with low self esteem girls?
I know this is at least partially a shit test;
But how do you deal with it when it's genuine and when it's a shit test.

Other than ignoring it. I've done that, and I've experimented with exaggerating it.
The latter doesn't work. :roll:
Author:  Wazzer [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 2:17 am ]
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OK, I didn't want to give it all away in the title.
But basically, how do you deal with low self esteem girls?
I know this is at least partially a shit test;
But how do you deal with it when it's genuine and when it's a shit test.

Other than ignoring it. I've done that, and I've experimented with exaggerating it.
The latter doesn't work. :roll:
Man I wanna find this out too. I encounter this 7.5 2x a week in school walking through the same halls.

Next encounter, I'm gonna bring my copy of "Psycho-cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz, open her with:

"Hey. (In a serious tone) You know why you SUCK? I've been wanting to talk to you the past few weeks but you always have this look like.." *then I do an exaggerated version of how she looks walking through the halls.

"What is you problem!? I don't even know why I'm talking to you right now!! ...so. Who the hell ARE you?"

and we'll probably have like a 2-5 minute talk (depending on how early the teacher dismisses their class) until I interrupt her and say: "You know, I got a class going on right now. So why don't I leave you with this book and I wanna see a big smile on your face this Thursday ok?" (Presumably, she SHOULD be smiling by then. Let's see how powerful this bitch's bitch shield really is.)

^So I got that all scripted in my mind. Been hypothesizing the past few nights how to talk to this girl and that's my plan. I'm thinking of whether or not I should have a sticker on my book with my name and number in it so as to give her a hint as well as being a great DHV (I appreciate good books).

The challenge for me is, I got a 9 whom I've already #closed in my next class. Wouldn't want to keep her waiting.
Author:  bmaxwe [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 2:36 am ]
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Telling A low Self Esteem Girl Why She Sucks Is Not A Good IDea. Thats Like Kicking Her When Shes Down. She Prolly Has Low Self Esteem Because She Is Treated Bad By People. Treat Her Like A Normal Person. Dont Go Over Bored And Make Yourself Look Like A Creep Or Needy. If You Make Her Feel Good She'll Want To be Around You More Cause That Is What Missing In Her Life.
Good Luck!
Author:  Wazzer [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 2:41 am ]
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Telling A low Self Esteem Girl Why She Sucks Is Not A Good IDea. Thats Like Kicking Her When Shes Down. She Prolly Has Low Self Esteem Because She Is Treated Bad By People. Treat Her Like A Normal Person. Dont Go Over Bored And Make Yourself Look Like A Creep Or Needy. If You Make Her Feel Good She'll Want To be Around You More Cause That Is What Missing In Her Life.
Good Luck!
Good advice but easy on the caps, mate... :?

By the way, this is a girl who has like 1045 friends on Facebook and every night she posts like 5 emo quotes about how she hates love and stuff like that.. and she has about 10 female friends (including her sister) commenting on her posts like: "Awww.. I know how you feel" and some laugh at her like "Good "

Personally, I think a lot of guys want her but her bitch shield is.
Also I think she's seeing someone. A guy posted "First day" on her wall last week and she 'liked' it. This week he posted: "First week!" and she 'liked' it too. Is this guy a beta?
Author:  bmaxwe [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 3:14 am ]
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I Doubt Hes A Beta. If Her Facebook Says Shes Single Then Shes Down For You To Open Her. "liking" Is What You Do When You Dont Care Enough To Write A Comment. Her Just " Liking" IT Could Be Her BS, Its Definitely Her Not Caring. Go Get Her Man! Girls "like" Things Out Of Pity. They Comment When They're Interested.
Author:  Indie00 [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 4:13 pm ]
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You guys lost me when you started talking about facebook...
Anyway, I tried just telling her she plays games too much when she does he low self esteem game, and it worked.

So when in doubt, just get honest.
Spill your true intentions or when you know she's consciously trying to get you to jump threw a hoop.
But don't be confrontational, just laugh along with her.
Author:  Wazzer [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 4:31 pm ]
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But don't be confrontational, just laugh along with her.
Funny you say that. This girl I know hardly ever laughs...
Author:  Indie00 [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 10:50 pm ]
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Then your not doing your job mate.
It's probably her protection shield. Try some cold reading.
"I can tell you've had to deal with a lot of immature people in your life. You've been living inside yourself, being the observer. You've also probably had a lot of painful experiences that taught you to keep your emotions to yourself."

I guarantee she'll open right up.
Because she mostly likely HAS been dealing with immature people that don't understand her, so meeting some one that does understand her will liberate her.

Of course you'll need to follow up on that.
Add in something like "You tend to get nervous at times you know you don't need to be, but you can't help it.", and add some rapport, "I love that about you, because I'm the same way, and it means I'll really be able to build a connection about you."

Then go into some more comfort building.

I should mention that you need to do some attraction before you do this part.
Focus on DHVing her friends, and most importantly don't come off as immature even for a second.
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 12:05 am ]
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I Doubt Hes A Beta. If Her Facebook Says Shes Single Then Shes Down For You To Open Her. "liking" Is What You Do When You Dont Care Enough To Write A Comment. Her Just " Liking" IT Could Be Her BS, Its Definitely Her Not Caring. Go Get Her Man! Girls "like" Things Out Of Pity. They Comment When They're Interested.
that's bizarre typing there
Author:  DJ_Z [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 2:02 am ]
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If I know a girl truly has no confidence in herself, I just don't neg. Negging is for the girls who think they are better than me.
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