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| Author: | drummerboy1 [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 1:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | need help quick is this the right thing to say ? |
so i haven't spoken to the girl i like and now its the summer holidays and i wont see her for 2 months so i was thinking of saying to her on Facebook hey i know we haven't really talked but i wanted to say have a good summer and hopefully she will talk back and we can start talking. what do you think ? cos im just a bit worried she will think its weird that im saying have a good summer because we don't talk. but i think she wont mind cos i think she likes me a bit. |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 3:43 pm ] |
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No, even I'M getting awkward vibes from your comment. comment on her profile picture or wall with a neg. For example, I was recently in the same position as you and the girl's profile picture was her standing next to a palm tree in miami. She's pretty short so my comment was: "Wow that tree must be like 5 feet tall" and naturally I got a response from her because I wasn't engaging in the pathetic beta fawning that every other guy does. |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 3:52 pm ] |
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You haven't spoken with this girl, but you want to leave a message that says 'have a good summer'? Why? You won't see her for 2 months...does it matter? It's not like you have a relationship with her. To answer your question, yes...that would seem weird #1, #2 it would make you look desperate and clingy. Don't get me wrong, your heart is in the right place, but you have to remember you're dealing with women. They will eat you up and spit you out if they sense weakness or wussiness. And leaving a message like that for a girl you barely know communicates both. You're thinking...'Leaving this message will make me look sweet and thoughtful (which doesn't get you laid by the way). She is thinking...'great, another desperate looser'. See what I'm saying? If you like her, game her, don't hide behind Facebook. |
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| Author: | drummerboy1 [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 4:23 pm ] |
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so should i just start talking to her then and not leave the message and get to know her better ? i mean it will be on fb cos i wont see her but maybe i could ask her if she wants to hang out some time. |
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