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Author:  fakename123 [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 11:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Told Me Has BF But Still Texting Me?
So I met this girl Saturday morning. We had one text conversation on Monday which I'm too lazy to type. She responded to everything, and ending it saying I had to go to the gym. Afterwards:

[Tuesday]
[8:03] Me: Guess what?
[8:03] Her: What?
[8:04 I called her to ask her out, she didn't answer. Didn't leave voicemail]
[9:13] I'm at the [baseball team] game, whats up?
Didn't know what to do so didn't worry about it.

[Wednesday]
[10:42] Me: Sorry was working last night. Called to ask you out. You like baseball huh? Its sooo boring (probably shouldn't have mentioned I was gonna ask her out)
[10:45] Her: Haha, its alright. [name], you seem really nice and I'd be down to hang out but you should know I have a a boyfriend. But we should definitely go climbing or hang out (we talked about climbing when I met her), you seem really cool.
[12:16] Me: Lucky guy. So no rebuttal on baseball sucking? At least we can agree on that.
[12:22] Her: Haha, I like it!
[12:24] Her: I'm headed to the gym to climb if you want to join?
[12:48] Her: And thank you very much for the compliment, it was very nice of you :)

I haven't texted or called after that (4 hours). Where do you guys think I should go from here? Was at work when she last texted me.
Author:  Verbal Seduction [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 12:14 am ]
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first of all depends what type of girl she is out of 1-10
whats her social status?
also what you messed up on "lucky guy" i woulda never said that
now your just in her hoop
also dont let her make plans YOU make plans
let her know what your doing and tell her to come along (im going ____ with my friends come along!)
go from their?
you could say i couldnt make it today really busy BUT (then make plans)
dont ever ask what are you doing tonight or do you want to hang out
be in control =]
Author:  fakename123 [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 1:43 am ]
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I'd say she is an 8 or 9. I met her on a saturday morning, so it was hard to tell. No idea about her social status, but I could tell she is very well socialized. Ok I just gotta keep my head up and keep sticking it out. Maybe I'm insecure about this, but I feel like she is taking pity on my with all the "you seem really nice" and "you seem really cool" and "hank you very much for the compliment, it was very nice of you."

Edit: So what and when should I say? I'm probably going out tomorrow night near where she lives. Any suggestions?
Author:  fakename123 [ Fri Jul 01, 2011 2:13 am ]
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Ok I just called her 30 hours after she last texted me. I asked her if she wants to check out the fair with me. She said she was planning on going out with her girlfriend tonight. I said I meant tomorrow at 1pm. She said she has work at 5pm, but she seemed willing and eventually we settled on 11am. No mention of the boyfriend. Hopefully he doesn't pop out of nowhere and kick my ass. Its on!
Author:  fakename123 [ Fri Jul 01, 2011 2:37 am ]
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Annnndddd she just texted me saying she feels uncomfortable going to the fair with me because she has a boyfriend. Back to square one :(
Author:  colblionel [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 8:51 pm ]
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I think you should give up on this one you're leaning it sounds like you're desperate now, just move on stop txting/calling her or w.e.
If she starts txting you that means she might be interested again because you stopped calling her...
This time you be more in control
Author:  Solteris [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 3:04 am ]
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Why didn't you go climbing with her? You need to take every opportunity you can to hook up with her. If you play that "oh im busy" game, shit like this will continue to happen... They want to feel *special*. Whether your a FWB or a long term boyfriend, if you dont make her feel like you really want to meet her and hang out with her, she'll never risk losing her boyfriend for a guy like that.

Fuck control. Fuck all of that, if you're not meeting this girl on a regular basis, how can you expect her to want to fuck you? I dont care how solid your text game is, if you figure out how to get pussy over a text message you let me know :)
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