Hey dudes. Let me start off by saying thanks in advance for whatever advice gets thrown my way and that I've never been really good at gaming. So anyway, I started ( a couple days) ago talking to this chick who I know from high school and we haven't talked in years (well she initiated contact with me). She IM'd me with a "hey stranger
" and we bantered for a little while so towards the end she tells me I should come see her at the bar she works at this Friday and of course I said, "sure!, I'll have to see what I'm up to but I could probably make it" and she thought it was great. At the end of us talking I said we should get together sometime and she said "sure thing, of course" or something to that effect and we exchanged numbers. We've texted back and forth for a little while over the past couple days (she even started texting me out of nowhere today), and I'm really diggin this girl. Anyway, my question is, when I go to the bar on Friday what can I do to keep her mind on me/coming back over to see me and wanting to talk to me while she's working? I'm sure she just asked me there so she could just get more business and better tips (I hope not), but if that's' the case how can I flip the tables on her and get her into me? Hopefully that's enough info for some sound advice thanks guys!p.s.- I read GUESSS' "phone game..." thread and was wondering about something; I stopped conversation on the texting today by saying "hey, I gotta jet though. I have to go to the gym still and run some errands but text me later ok? bye" was this a good move or no? because I kinda feel like it's in the middle ground somewhere. I stopped texting so the power was in my hands but I also asked her to get back to me and she never did so I don't really know....