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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 2:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | It sucks to go down as that one guy the girl truly loves |
I had a relationship with this girl and my God was it crazy. I put her through a really emotional journey, we fought, she cried, I've chased, she ignored, we were just crazy for each other. It ended though, there was no trust, it was your "Hottest love has the coldest end" kind of story. I'm liking other girls now and I think she has a boyfriend but I'm not sure, there are no signs. She mentioned "boyfriend" to her friend whom she knows I talk to like right after I went to prom with some other chick so I'm pretty sure it was all a lie to get me to panic. I treated her like a queen and a slut. Anyways, we are done, finished. I was so sexual and daring/cunning with her. Any guy she finds now doesn't even come close to what me and her had. 60 years of challenge is right. In a situation like this, the girl usually gets with a new guy whose just a type of provider, follows her agenda in exchange for affection. I on the other hand refused to follow her agenda. We had lots of fun together, a lot of thrill. I'm her true love. Me and her always had witty conversations, I always teased her, always put her mind to work. She couldn't even breathe for a day without me. Me and her didn't agree very much we always argued over small things but I still pulled her back and made a joke out of the situation or turned it sexual. The reason I say it sucks is because this girl was the love of my life. I have never gone crazy for anyone else but her. I'm the type of guy who can draw and play guitar and sing. I did all of that for her, she has photo realistic drawings from me including a portrait I made of her. Sometimes I'm happy that I am that "one" true love but then again I wish I was with her right now. Guys, most of you on here are only focused on picking up a girl. From personal experience, picking up girls is very easy. All you have to do is be 100% honest with them. You don't have to be cocky, you don't need to run routines, nothing. All you need are balls to escalate and honesty. Opening and rejection ain't shit, do not take any of it personally. And most importantly, stop trying to see if the girl even likes you! You are wasting more time dicking around looking for IOIs than just going at it and escalating. Pussy is pussy, easy to get. But there is a way bigger drug than that and it's called love. Having a crazy adventure with a girl doesn't compare to anything else out there. You get hurt way more than picking up girls but it's worth it. If you don't love, then you are living for nothing. |
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| Author: | Kalel [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 7:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: It sucks to go down as that one guy the girl truly loves |
Quote: But there is a way bigger drug than that and it's called love.
The thing that sucks is that it's a drug that wears off. What you are referring to is limerence, not love; and in a passionate relationship, it still usually last only 12-15 months.Love is not instant, it is not overwhelming, it is not all encompassing; that's just the pair-bonding endorphins being released into your system. Love is hard. Love takes time and effort and work and dedication. Love is about sacrificing parts of your own life for someone else. Love is intimacy and trust and commitment and compassion. You don't fall in love, you build love. You open you heart and your life to someone and share and bond and trust, till you build a relationship worth working toward, worth fighting for, worth sacrificing for. Love is a bitch. But with the right girl, it's more than worth it. But to compare love to a drug or an adventure, is an insult to love. If you want a drug or a wild time, then take a drug. Love is much more than a cheap thrill or a high. |
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| Author: | Fvckitimout [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 7:26 am ] |
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Say that you two are indeed in love. Why did you split up? Because you want other girls? Because she realized she didnt want to sacrifice her agenda for you? And if the two of you do love each other then whats keeping both of you from getting back? |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 9:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: It sucks to go down as that one guy the girl truly loves |
Quote:
picking up girls is very easy. All you have to do is be 100% honest with them. You don't have to be cocky, you don't need to run routines, nothing. All you need are balls to escalate and honesty. Opening and rejection ain't shit, do not take any of it personally. And most importantly, stop trying to see if the girl even likes you! You are wasting more time dicking around looking for IOIs than just going at it and escalating. Pussy is pussy, easy to get.
+1 Totally agree with both parts.
But there is a way bigger drug than that and it's called love. Having a crazy adventure with a girl doesn't compare to anything else out there. You get hurt way more than picking up girls but it's worth it. If you don't love, then you are living for nothing. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 5:12 pm ] |
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I agree with the meaning and point of your post, but I dont think "Drug" is the right word. I am older than most on this forum and have had the opportunity to be in exactly the relationship you describe above. I made the decision to end it on the thought that ending it would in turn make it stronger (long story). That backfired on me and now I have no contact with her. What I do know is that the strongest Love has the greatest pain! Good post, took me deep into my memories... |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 10:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: It sucks to go down as that one guy the girl truly loves |
Quote: Quote: But there is a way bigger drug than that and it's called love.
The thing that sucks is that it's a drug that wears off. What you are referring to is limerence, not love; and in a passionate relationship, it still usually last only 12-15 months.Love is not instant, it is not overwhelming, it is not all encompassing; that's just the pair-bonding endorphins being released into your system. Love is hard. Love takes time and effort and work and dedication. Love is about sacrificing parts of your own life for someone else. Love is intimacy and trust and commitment and compassion. You don't fall in love, you build love. You open you heart and your life to someone and share and bond and trust, till you build a relationship worth working toward, worth fighting for, worth sacrificing for. Love is a bitch. But with the right girl, it's more than worth it. But to compare love to a drug or an adventure, is an insult to love. If you want a drug or a wild time, then take a drug. Love is much more than a cheap thrill or a high. repped + 10 |
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