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| Author: | Torn Stitch [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 11:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | K-Close rejection..who makes first contact? |
Ok been talking to this girl for a little bit, hung out once but didnt close. Today we went out to breakfast(met there) and had decent kino, great convos and I've already build rapport with her. Now today she told me she is going back home for two weeks on monday. We hugged when we were about to leave and I went in for the kiss. She backed up a little and said "noo you cant do this to me right now." I acted straight but I did say yes when she said no for some reason(random outburst) but immediately went on to not caring and just smiling. Anyways, I am obviously not going to appologize or anything and we are supposed to play basketball sometime(idk if before or after her vacation). Question is, should I freeze her out until she texts me since she was the one that didnt let me kiss her or should I initiate contact with her at some point before she leaves? Thanks |
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| Author: | GKS [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 11:26 pm ] |
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Just to make things clear, when you said kiss close, did you mean a kiss on the cheek or peck on lips? |
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| Author: | Torn Stitch [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 11:27 pm ] |
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I kissed her on the cheek last time I saw her. Today I went in for the lips and she moved her head back I should also mention that by the way she texts me and acts around me, there is definetely attraction built between us |
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| Author: | GKS [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 11:50 pm ] |
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You probably didn't build enough comfort there. A freezeout should only be used when she displays bad behaviors or tries to bullshit you, however you can't just punish her for something she isn't ready for. If you freeze her out now, you contradict to the carefree way you acted after getting rejected. Wait couple days, toss her a text, tell her to come out to see you. Build some more comfort and try kiss close again. Personally, I rarely do kiss close at the goodbye, it's cliched and she is fully aware of it. Do it spontaneously during the date. |
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| Author: | Torn Stitch [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 11:53 pm ] |
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It was hard to do that since we were sitting across from each other at a diner. But she is leaving on monday and my first day of filming is sunday so tomorrow is the last chance I can see her before she leaves. Otherwise, I could send her a quick text and wish her a safe trip back or whatever and then just see her when she comes back and try again. Thanks for the advice |
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| Author: | Kupid [ Sat Jun 25, 2011 1:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: K-Close rejection..who makes first contact? |
Quote: We hugged when we were about to leave and I went in for the kiss. She backed up a little
You should be a little faster there  Anyway the next time you see her you tell her: "I tried to kiss you, cause I like you I can't help myself." It seems too simple, but why should you complicate, believe me, she won't gonna have anything prepared to say for this one, she can't, cause it's real anyway, think about it 
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| Author: | Torn Stitch [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 12:28 am ] |
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Alright, so I texted her the next day telling her I wanted to play bball before she left(we only had one day though) She made an excuse on why she couldnt play and then I said "no excuses..." and she never wrote back. I decided I should freeze her out at this point. Try to learn more while she is on vacation and start fresh when she gets back. Plus I was about to start filming a movie and needed to focus on that. I just stopped filming a few days ago and am fully shaved with a haircut now. I had a nasty mustache when I tried to k-close her lol. Now its been two weeks, she hasnt contacted me and I havent contacted her. She gets back from vacation on monday I think. Should I continue with the freeze out or should I re-initiate conversation? I dont want to lose all attraction but at the same time, I dont want to seem needy or like the rest of the guys that are hitting on her (she has a decent amount of guys hitting on her at all times but she seems to either want to be single or just plays really hard to get with all of them) So should I move on and keep with the freezeout or try to re-initiate and plan for us to do something when she gets back in a few days? Thanks guys! |
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