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| Author: | mauryan [ Thu Jun 23, 2011 2:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Awkward feeling when opening |
For me, most of the part I am in the day game. And it feels awkward when i start with a opener or anything for that matter. Its like strange sort of, you know, its a bit uncommon for girls at public places like parks to be approached by a stranger, that too even at day! Can anyone elaborate! 
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| Author: | andd95 [ Thu Jun 23, 2011 4:05 pm ] |
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increasing comfort is never a bad thing, this goes both ways i have observed. My day game revolves around picking up girls on the fly, i never think about what i'm going to say I am great at improvisation. don't add unneeded pressure to your game, i always advise that people act natural. even if they don't think they have natural game if you go up to a girl and you seem stressed out or anxious about something they will get that vibe and be less open to you. don't be afraid to walk away even if you have no intention TO walk away, have that as your mind set. have conversation that is both genuine and organic and you will not run out of things to say. All else fails bid goodbye just before you run out of things to say. |
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| Author: | mauryan [ Thu Jun 23, 2011 7:24 pm ] |
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Alright, I'll apply it! |
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| Author: | Vincent_West [ Thu Jun 23, 2011 8:05 pm ] |
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hahah i totally know how u feel, but when you think about it, would u appreciate some hot girl approaching you!? of course u would. I like to think of myself as a hot guy, even if i shouldn't, so when i approach women, i feel like im doing them a favor. Helps me to think im doing people favors and i lose all nervousness |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Thu Jun 23, 2011 8:52 pm ] |
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I WANT TO BE APPROACHED BY YOU ... in a good way .. im not gay ... or something .. |
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| Author: | Vincent_West [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 5:10 am ] |
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haha it would be an honor to approach you, in a totally straight hetro way !! hahaha |
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| Author: | Rox [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 5:17 am ] |
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May just be a bit of approach anxiety. If not, it may just be that you aren't used to it. You will just get used to it over time. Just take the mindset that this girl really wants to talk to someone, especially you, because you are awesome! And it's only awkward if you make it awkward. So if you are comfortable, then she will feel comfortable. |
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| Author: | phangan [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 5:40 am ] |
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Here is what I suggest.... go out and do it with a friend, and do the whole thing as a GAME, just the two of you fooling around having fun with each other and other people. This is how it should be done anyway... doing it with a wing can make it more fun and less serious (it SHOULD be fun and not serious!) Now... I just wish I had a wing to apply my advice with  About a week ago I met a friend of a friend who doesn't know anything about PU, but I challenged him to it, we did just that on the streets of Bangkok for two nights. There was NO set that didn't blow-up to us, set down with us, spent with us at least 10 minutes if not 2-3 hours... We saw two girls sitting down in a restaurant and just came to them with "hey whats that soup you are eating" and were asked to sit down with them after about 1 minute. We could hang out together just two nights but the whole experience blew my mind. My end goal is to be able to do it alone but... as with anything in PU- starting slow is key.... go out with a wing, have fun, fool around.. then take it from there. Why jumping to the deep end when you can make things easier? |
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