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| Author: | chupa.chuppps [ Wed Jun 22, 2011 2:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Helping a friend with his one-itis |
Hi guys, need some advice on this point. One of my best friend, who is also my best wingman has serious oneitis issues with a girl. I would say the girl is a kind of attention whore : - She's always trying to flirt with every boys around (from touching to rubbing her ass even in front of her actual boyfriend), especially with the ones showing no sexual interest in her. - She's not speaking at all to other girls, even if it's girls we know. - She's always complaining about her life, job, boyfriend, ... - She acts as if she was the hottest girl in the world even if she's just a cute 7/10 with a fat ass My friend dated her during a few month about 2 years ago, more like a sex friend than a real relationship and now, she's in a relationship with someone my friend knows. The girl is still a very close friend to him (they spend 5-10 hours / week on phone and they see very often). My issue is that she's quite toxic to him : - He's pretty good at natural game and he just turn into a puppy when she's around - He's usually quite depressed after he call her/see her - When she's around, she spend her time being a jerk with him (mainly making fun on him in front of everybody and saying "personal" stuff about him) - If she's calling him or asking him to come to see her, he drops everything in the minute and run to see her (even if he's with good friends having a nice evening for exemple...) - He makes very bad personnal life choice and sometimes takes some irrational decisions to be able to spend some time with her (he just droped his job to be able to go in holiday with her ... and her boyfriend...) Everybody knowing him and her have quite the same advice about her toxic effect on him and we all would want to "cure" him but we really don't know how... I already tried to talk to him about "how sad he seems to be when he see her" but I don't want to say all I think about her to avoid a counterproductive effect and he's also very oftenly saying after a meeting with her how bad she makes him feel so I think he's aware of his problem. It seems he just doesn't want to solve it... How can I (we) help him ? Thanks for your advice ! |
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