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Author:  forestygump [ Tue Jun 21, 2011 7:08 am ]
Post subject:  One-itis help
Hi guys, I'm a 22 year old guy from Austria. I'm new to this whole pua thingy (i've only been reading online forums such as this one recently, never realised the existence of this community until I read The Game a few months back). Anyhow, I decided to give these techniques a shot.

Just recently, I met this girl through a mutual friend. She's from L.A, and is only visiting Austria (where I'm at right now) for just a day and a night. I introduced myself during dinner and ran a few routines on her, afterwhich, I could tell that she was sorta attracted to me. The next morning, we went out on a mini-date because I offered to show her around the area. The day went absolutely amazing. We established an almost instant deep emotional connection and talked about so much stuff. By the end of the night, we were holding hands and I got a K-close (okay it was actually an awesome makeout session haha). The night ended pretty depressingly because the both of us knew this was as much time as we had. That was the only day we had, and she flew back to LA (6000 miles from here) the very next day.

I am glad these techniques did work, in a sense that I managed to catch her attention during our first dinner with a large group of friends. But on the otherhand, I think I might have gotten overly attached emotionally, because the last few days have been a torturous hell for me. In other words, I'm down with one-itis.

To be honest, if I could, I would drop everything I have now and fly over to the US just to be with her. But the thing is we're starting our university soon and there is simply no chance of any of us seeing each other again in the near future :( . I never knew it was this difficult to get over something that only lasted for a day, albeit a beautiful one.

So guys, what should I do? Should I just let it go, or should I keep in touch with her, prolly through the unromantic Facebook, until a future possibility presents itself to us?
Author:  Txacoli [ Tue Jun 21, 2011 7:29 am ]
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You discovered the game, that's great! So don't stop here. There are some girls that will make an impact on you, even if you've known them just a day. Keep this as a great memory and focus on your life in Austria. If this is something that happened recently, don't worry, you'll feel better soon and you won't be thinking about her as much. Maybe the best thing is not to keep contact with her, since it will just prolong the suffering. Long distance relationships depend on good imagination, and if you have good imagination you can literally fall in love deeper and deeper with this girl despite the fact she's 6000 miles away. This will bring a lot of pain long term.
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Author:  cahill4554 [ Tue Jun 21, 2011 6:12 pm ]
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Not to offend you but that's truly absurd. The past few days were not that bad. You should think of your interactions with this woman as a victory and nothing more. Learn from it and refine your game but never think of her as someone better than any other girl you're going to meet in the future. you had a fun night, just let it go or it will continue to hold you back

Btw it's extremely important not to get attached to anyone, especially women. Focus on yourself
Author:  robrammuny [ Tue Jun 21, 2011 6:19 pm ]
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I wouldn't sit around and beat yourself down because you can't see her. Go out and hang out with friends, meet more women and get your mind off her.

I'm sure she's a great women, but there will be many more you cross paths with.

Now, that's not to say don't keep a connection with her. Text her, call her, chat with her on Facebook and keep the attraction going so next time you two meet up it will be another fun interaction.

Just make sure you don't let your emotions get to you while talking to her.. it will make you come off as desperate and a bit creepy.

Just create the vibe as, I had a great time with you and you seem like a cool girl so we should keep in touch.
Author:  tekryder [ Tue Jun 21, 2011 7:06 pm ]
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go to a map and look at how far away she is.. I had oneitis and then i realize the distance is too far, and it helps calm me down.
Author:  Blane [ Tue Jun 21, 2011 7:38 pm ]
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iniel says in the game if you have onites you should meat 12 other woman and then see how important that one girl is.
Author:  HAQ'er [ Tue Jun 21, 2011 8:10 pm ]
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nothing gets you over the last one, like the next one!
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