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| Author: | HellRaiser [ Sun Oct 21, 2007 5:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | False time constraint... ok - but how to get back... |
As I read about openers, it should include something that says you are on the move. You just happend to talk to a group and you are on the way to ... PS: where I hang out is with drunk ppl, and me too... "...I was on the way to the bar to get a beer..." This is something I have tried to apply last few days, just to test. Nice thing with it, is that it gives you an escape reason if it doesn't go well. Nice. Not sure if I completely understand this... Should you always act on it? If I need an beer, then I should get one. But if the conversation goes smooth, should I act on it anyway? I guess the main point is to move away from the group after talking to them, and if everything is done right, the girl will chase you down?? But in clubs where ppl drink, the girl will often have many friends she wants to suddenly talk to, or get disturbed by friends. So she easily forget me. Thats ok I guess. 1. When you move out, what do you do then. Open a new group? Or du you wait in a spot trying to look busy with something ...or ... im a bit confused here. 2. You move out. The girl gets busy with other stuff and stays because of the environment. How and when do you approach again? Doing another opener etc? It kinda seems lame to do that ... but on the other hand you do have the benefit of knowing them like "I met you guys outside didn't I?? ... blablabla" Bit confused here... |
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| Author: | Chikito [ Sun Oct 21, 2007 5:21 am ] |
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Ok its called a FTC (False time constraint) not a bounce/time bridge (thats an instant date). The false time constraint is there to stop them thinking 'are we guna get stuck with this guy' if your first impression isnt that good. But say your in the middle of some good convo. And you just walk away half way through her sentance to get a beer, we call that a take-away. Here is a perfect example of how a non-verbal false time constraint works. Watch how he opens the two set. |
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| Author: | HellRaiser [ Sun Oct 21, 2007 9:54 am ] |
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FTC: I can understand that it is used to create the impression of you not beeing stuck to the group. If the conversation goes good, ye I guess you can stay as long as you want. I have only read a bit about PUA so far. But it seems like a fast thing to do. You don't use an hour to get a girl. You get her in a short time, and take her with you. Well im not there yet. So then there is a natural thing that other guys who rotate take contact, or the grp get disturbed by friends, or someone must go and ... get a drink etc... I would guess that the best ting to do, is to be the person who leave, not get left. So an excuse for leaving is nice. Then I hope for having made good first impression so I can say hi later on - that kinda work. So... do you leave? when should you, and how to get back... Didn't see mystery do any of that in your clip... |
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