PUA Forum
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

how to approach/ask out girl working at video rental place
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=94299		 Page 1 of 1
Author:  Teknine [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 3:13 pm ]
Post subject:  how to approach/ask out girl working at video rental place
I put this in approaching initially, but reconsidered because there are general questions.

I am not socially awkward, but this is one of those situations that can render me clueless. Just looking for pointers on mindframe, how to proceed.

I frequent a video rental store in my city (one of the last remaining). It is a favorite place for quirky, alternative, and sometimes cute college girls to work for the summer.

The usual setup is this: 3 geeky dudes working the store and cash registers, cracking jokes about films and games with each other, and always a lone girl in the mix. Recently I rented a DVD and this girl I'd never seen there before was working and said she liked my choice, and one of the dudes started chuckling at her and she turned red. As I left, we made eye contact and there was an unmistakeable vibe.

So basically - If I go back in there, is it a 'dont give a fuck situation'? It seems highly unlikely I will get her alone, so any work must be done around numerous people who will hear the whole thing. Any ideas? Or am I caring too much about what everyone thinks?
Author:  sheps [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 3:28 pm ]
Post subject: 
Ok this is at your own risk i am NOT suggesting this is the most effective way of going about this but if you are SURE there is a vibe i'd go direct like real direct.
walk in and start talking and if someone starts talking to her go with

*loudly*
"Dont you hate it when you're trying to chat up a cutie in a blockbuster and one of her mates totally cockblocks you sheesh!"
or to the guy
"Duuuude you're totally cock blocking me here"

-->dont forget to smile etc, you mean what you're saying but you're saying it because you're a funny guy not because you're annoyed

Something like that. Now i'm quite happy to do something like that it doesnt bother me but if you're the type of person that would say something like that and then think omg what the fuck did i just do "im so sorry" it probably wont work

Sheps does not indorse making a fool of yourself in public places, all advice should be taken with a pinch of salt.
:P
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 3:40 pm ]
Post subject: 
Just go direct and destroy those choads working there who never had the courage to do what you were able to in 1 minute - tell her she's hot and ask her out.
Author:  sheps [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 4:06 pm ]
Post subject: 
^ do this
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 4:15 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Recently I rented a DVD and this girl I'd never seen there before was working and said she liked my choice
what movie was it ?
Author:  Teknine [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 4:24 pm ]
Post subject: 
yo, thanks for all the advice. sometimes it's hard to step back and think clearly. Respect. Sheps, I'll go for it next time I see her (hopefully this week - don't know her schedule).

Lodewijkp - Twas Buffalo '66. good call on her part. ;)
Author:  sheps [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 4:27 pm ]
Post subject: 
succeed or fail, let us know how it goes dude :D

Good luck
Author:  superunknown88 [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 4:43 pm ]
Post subject: 
Go for it! What you got to lose?

I was walking past Next store in my city today. I just happened to glance at a girl who works there and she smiled at me. There was a bit of a vibe. I aim to go there tomorrow again and pretend to shop. Gonna tell her she's hot and if she fancies a drink. If it was just a friendly smile...at least I tried!
Author:  Teknine [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 1:51 am ]
Post subject: 
Ok well it was a fucking crash and burn (documented here: fr-epic-fail-picking-up-cashier-help-an ... 95292.html)

I finally got to talk to her, got her name, she asked me what I was up to later in the day, she told me when she got off work, but then the line started forming again and I didn't pull the trigger. Went back in and gave her my number, response was not great. posted a field report to take in the criticism.

all I can say is i have respect for you guys who can pull girls while they're working. My first attempt at that.
Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/