i number closed a girl at a party i set up a day two which went very well but ive found out that thairs another boy in the equation basically shes trying to decide which one of us she wants more so is thair any way that i could use a sort of mock up 'boyfriend destroyer' or anything along those lines to draw her intrest more towards me? as this boy has a reputation for being a player where im from and so i do not intend to 'compete' with him as such to get the girl as that would seem to one sided in his favour.
any advice is welcome no matter how technical or obvious...