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| Author: | phangan [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 2:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | 12 sets a night / burning yourself at a venue / saturation |
OK here is one of my biggest problems. I have no problem approaching (took me 2 months...) The more doors I knock on - the more doors will open. I know. The only shots I miss - are the ones I don't take at all... got it. Approaching - no problem. But - once you open a set or a single girl and you are rejected - everybody can see it. Your social value drops.... you can't simply run around and open set after set. Even if I stay in set 5 minutes before moving on, and not fully blown away (that almost never happens... I always stay in set at least a few minutes) I still feel it "wrong" to just turn around and open the next set, because it makes me feel that everybody knows what I'm up to and I can usually feel at one point (usually after 3-4 sets) that I've "saturated" myself and that I have nothing else to do but give up for the night.... it's not an inner game problem, it's just that I know that all the girls saw what I was doing and that social proof works the other way around - being rejected by one girl will increase the chances that you will be rejected by the other... Thoughts on this one? |
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| Author: | muzztecAFC [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 5:06 am ] |
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Well if you make it look like she rejected you then it will. What I normally do if I get blown out, I just laugh with them, and make it look like I ran into an old friend and I had better things to do. Also have a comfort set, so just be a social nice guy to a group of girls or girls/guys, just introduce yourself and be fun, because after you get rejected you can go back to them so you can play out to everyone else that you left and went back to your friends. I actually never really have had a problem with this, one night I was a bit drunk, so I opened 50 girls all in the same area, they all just through I was being friendly and were all nice to me, then towards the end of the night I kept running into them danced with some of them, added them on facebook, randomly spoke to some of them and told them to go out, got their numbers, and the other night one of them randomly texted me telling me they had a hotel room for the night and to go. So don't worry about it, it is good to meet lots of girls, even better if you go to the same club all the time, get to know most of the girls there, then when you go the next week say hi to them all and dance with them, this is a massive DHV if you already know everyone there, then new girls will be like wow everyone knows this guy and yer will make it easier to open them and even dance and make out with them. |
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| Author: | phangan [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 5:48 am ] |
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Yea, comfort set is good. Last night I made two girls be such a set, I even told them to pick up girls for me to open and that I will try to kiss them in 4 minutes or less, so it helped me have some motivation. Later they started to point out at girls who liked me (I didn't really need their help with that, but it was cool). It also make them wonder why don't I want THEM and they started to flirt with me, making the other girls jealous... it's a good routine. |
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