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| Author: | Lava [ Fri Jun 17, 2011 10:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How strong is your IOI radar? |
Hi, I've been inspired to write this post by a question asked by a fellow member in this section of the forum, IOIs. I'm sure we all know how important it is to see and understand IOIs when they are given, here are the reasons: 1- Getting an IOI is your definate chance to escalate, it will reduce the chance of rejection. 2- Its a test to see if you will escalate, girls get turned off massively when you do not take the chance to escalate, know that recovering with this girl will be difficult. 3- Feedback on your gaming performance and wether you should stay or just stop wasting time and leaving. 4- Seeing your friend getting an IOI which he didn't realise - wingmenship! You will be pissed off at me for the amount of chances I missed out on in the past from passing IOIs, I didn't know how to game back then! It was however, Mystery's list of IOIs that I took a hard look on and vowed to watch out for in the future. A friend of mine, a really good PUA and a "natural", has 100% confidence and trust in being a good wingman for one reason - being able to read the sign! Mind you, every now and then he misses out on some himself, which is fine, we all do sometimes. It can be really hard trying to focus on gaming whilst looking for IOIs at the same time and trying to listen, its too much. However, I've recently noticed how quickly I get IOIs, how frequently I get them, how attraction is everywhere, not because I'm more attractive, but simply because I can see them now (In my new reality, I see IOIs, so now the interaction takes a different path). You too, you will be suprised how attractive you are once you LEARN how to pick up IOIs without even thinking or focusing on looking for those signals. I became good by chance, this is how it happened: 1- I read the list of IOIs written by Mystery, and related each one of them with girls I've recently been interacting with, counted how much I got, compared it with female friends too, you will find a pattern. 2- When going out, I started to watch a couple on the dancefloor, smoking area, restraunt, in the park WITHOUT being able to hear their conversation. Simply, observing their body language, especially the girl. 3- I then make a prediction on what will happen within the next 10 minutes, kiss? rejection? ofcourse if they leave, also, are they friends? did they leave holding hands, etc. Its really fun, try it, I now tell my friends to watch and I predict what will happen based on the IOIs or IODs the girl showed. Once this became a habit, it became something built in me, an IOI radar, I can feel any IOI now from accross the room to face to face talking without even focusing on looking for them, this really really helped in becoming more focused on the interaction itself than looking for IOIs losing concentration on the process. You will get an auto IOI indicator. You do it all the time, whenever you go out, there is no harm observing couple from distance, even if you don't know what you're looking for, the mind is so beautiful it starts to develop a system of events in your brain, so eventually you see differences in patterns in successful guys where the girls have shown IOIs. Its really not hard. My favourite practice of this was a couple of weeks ago I went to a club observing the dancefloor, standing in the middle between two of my friends. This hot chick dancing with her friend looked over our direction once. I turned to tell my friend "let's attack that", he responds "no wait, she's with guys", I look back and "two guys appeared from no where"...So I watched....she glanced over and moved her eyes away quickly whilst dancing with the guy and I thought to myself "wait, I need to observe a little more, is she just teasing? is that her bf? is that her friend"....So I kept watching, this time she was dancing closer to his body...shit, its not looking good...and then I saw what really gave me the green light to go in....1- the guy was nervous (surely he doesn't know her then). 2- his friend was neither being introduced nor involved with her friend (they really don't know each other). 3- there was no eye contact between them (poor gaming by him). 4- she moved closer to him, not her (she escalated to give him a chance which he didn't take very well, he kept on being nervous). 5- She didn't smile to him enough (he definitely won't get a chance to move for a kiss). 6- She kept glancing over and looking away when I look. This is when I turned to my friend and said "watch the rejection he will get within the next 5 minutes", needless to day, he got rejected! Guys, really, try to build an IOI radar system to help you focus, this is an inner game area which will help massively, it makes all the difference when you can see that. They say "always assume attraction", you will have no idea how true this statement is until you start noticing IOIs, you will see how many you get each interaction. I would like to know if the majority here, AFCs, RAFCs, PUAs, MPUAs, if you all just detect them during your interaction, the girl your friend is trying to get or do you have to focus hard? I would love to know |
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