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Author:  Nukka [ Thu Jun 16, 2011 2:18 pm ]
Post subject:  too many negs? i need help

Yesterday I went to a party with two of my boys. It was a small house party and we had fun talking to girls and playing beer pong. The problem was that I was negging the girls I was talking to too much.I wasnt using any lines just natural but I want to know how can i just build a conversation with a girl to get her to be attracted to me so I can give her the D and be on with my life?

I feel like an asshole when I neg more than once and i can never just talk to a girl to build the attraction

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Jun 16, 2011 2:26 pm ]
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Stop negging.

Focus on TEASING and FLIRTING - that's done in a playful, fun, often slightly sexual way. It NEVER involves insulting, or anything said seriously or offensively.

In general, if it's gonna hurt your chances, just ignore what she says. If she says ANYTHING you can use for comic effect, to take things further, and to make into a sexual reference, DO IT with a cheeky smile, then continue the conversation.

Forget about the idea of needing to knock her down a peg, and focus on taking anything you can, from just a glance, to a touch or something she says, as absolute 100% incontrovertible proof that she wants to fuck the shit out of you and is hitting on you hardcore. Then return whatever she did with interest - e.g. build or ESCALATE the interaction.

Author:  Nukka [ Thu Jun 16, 2011 2:41 pm ]
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Makes sense. Thanks a lot for the help man.

Author:  charmingattraction [ Fri Jun 17, 2011 6:49 am ]
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There is a difference between negs and teasing. Negs bring her down a notch while teasing builds the attraction and sexual tension. If she has no bitch shield then tease if she has her shields up then neg

Author:  JSCA [ Fri Jun 17, 2011 9:53 am ]
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I sorta do the same and basically just Neg, I dont find any problems with that. My problem is i focus to much on negging and not on DHV's or Kino.

Author:  Lodewijkp [ Fri Jun 17, 2011 11:21 am ]
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i only neg during opening or shortly after opening.... mid game and end game only contains playfull teasing and cocky funny stuff.

look if you are going to DLV her you might as well do it when your are opening

do i neg because i need to DLV her ? . of course not ... im just more cocky to strangers - my way of opening is aggressive but that doesn't mean im there to insult them. if i don't like something about her i just tell her when i open the woman...

you don't have to DLV anyone in order to get results... if you can get results without DLV ing other people . if you have high value then there is no need to DLV other people.

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