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Author:  fabliau [ Thu Jun 16, 2011 2:53 am ]
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Hey guys I am really confused right now. I have a girl I have been gaming we've been hanging out a bunch (shes on the slow track) have been kinoing, negging, etc. and we seem to be into each other. The thing is she talks about hooking me up with other girls and her getting on other dudes. I am wondering if this is a test or what? Is she trying to see what I will do, and talking about other guys to disqualify herelf?

Any input would be great!
Author:  Torn Stitch [ Thu Jun 16, 2011 3:02 am ]
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Have you made a move on her yet? If not, she probably friend zoned you.
Author:  fabliau [ Thu Jun 16, 2011 3:12 am ]
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I've only just recently started hanging out with her and we've jus snuggled on the couch and fooled around... Im pretty new with pickup. How should I make a move on her without being creepy?
Author:  half9 [ Thu Jun 16, 2011 3:23 am ]
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Have you made a move on her yet? If not, she probably friend zoned you.
That is a very IMPORTANT question we got here...

You need to remember that you MUST talk with a PURPOSE! If you do not declare your intentions with a girl that you want to get with her then sadly she will place you where she thinks you will fit...

But then again...

If she is talking about she wants to hook you up with one of her girlfriends then it only shows one thing... shes into you ;)

HAHA (got to love human psychology).... This girl is not experience to liking a guy like yourself. If anything, you "might" be coming in to "fast" for her... this is why she is acting the way she is, she just does not know how to handle herself.

Well I can confirm that she does not know how to handle herself towards you, that is why she is trying to direct you to someone else... she is putting up a defensive wall by talking about other guys...

What YOU need to focus on is COMMUNICATION.... Well its not lie where my PUA education came from ;) (haha) but in honestly you have this girl on the run... its up to you to catch her... ;)
Author:  fabliau [ Thu Jun 16, 2011 3:29 am ]
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Alright awesome man, appreciate it! When you say focus on communication, are you saying I should focus on what my intentions are or what?

One more thing I should probably add is that she is recently single and coming out of a pretty long relationship. I kind of came in and I am trying to take it slow because I dont want to be a rebound, but I also dont want to be put in the friends zone. Any advice on how to not move too slow or too fast? haha

Thanks!
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Thu Jun 16, 2011 4:09 am ]
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I would use some serious push-pull. One of these times you're cuddling or something (whatever you're doing that can fit the bill), ESPECIALLY IF SHE INITIATED IT, just tell her you think it's all moving to fast. But don't be afraid to go back into it after a little bit. Very useful practice in general, but especially applicable to your situation, as it will prove your intentions, s you won't o to the friend zone, but also show that you're sensitive to her feelings of the whole deal moving to fast. This will make her more comfortable with you, which is why you may find yourself in the same situation not five minutes later. That's proof enough it's worked. Just run with it. ;)
Author:  half9 [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 3:20 am ]
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...are you saying I should focus on what my intentions are or what?

...she is recently single and coming out of a pretty long relationship
Welcome to Seduction Morals 102 ;), you have to start to realize the art of communication even though you can not name the processes of what your doing... trust me its there!

If I am telling you a story about my skie trip where I hurt yourself and my only message I want you to focus on is the one about ethics then how would it sound to you? Couldn't we say this is the beginning of a message with intentions? Its up to you to create your own intentions for other people....shhh

Now we can not escape psychology (sadly not even me). Do you know where the term "she is on the rebound" originated from? If she is coming out of a pretty long relationships then I bet she wants to take it FAST, only if you allow it (such power you already have Sir).

Speaking through psychology, when someone leaves a relationship their self-esteem takes a BIG hit making them more subjective to have sex ASAP after the event. If a girl is running and your holding her, then no wounder she would be pawning you off...

;)
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