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Author:  ChristmasWish [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 9:47 am ]
Post subject:  Picking up "shy" girls
I've been targeting this girl for a couple of days, only met her once in a flash because I was in a hurry, but her natural beauty got me thinking about her.

I'm usually pretty good with picking up girls that get a lot of male attention, girls that require some serious negging.

However, shouldn't the approach be different with "shy" girls?

This girl is 19, still a virgin, never had a serious relationship with a guy, she is one of the most beautiful girl on campus but has never had a boyfriend. From what i've heard she's dated and hooked up sporadically with guys in the past like every young girl does, but not that much.

This got me wondering if you neg a girl like that, could she feel personally hurt and just get scared away?

How do you guys deal with "shy" girls?
Author:  0uch [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 10:46 am ]
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So, negging is your whole game? I don't neg, but even if I did, it would be like 5
% of my game.

I thought the point of neg was to break down the bitch shield or to disarm obstacle. Not to keep on doing it until you get women into bed or hook up with her.

Be honest, we are here to help. One thing I will tell you is to work on calibration. You should not have this problem. Only difference I can see between a shy girl and slutty ones as far as sleeping with them goes, your gonna spend a lot more time on comfort building, making connections, kino, etc...

Or if I am wrong, you could have negs confuse with teasing.
Author:  Bloodninja93 [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 10:54 am ]
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Picking up shy girls isn't easy, let me tell you. From personal experience, I know that too much negging on a shy girl can lead to dramatic consequences. They are already insecure enough, they don't want to be called "giant oversized whales" (my mistake. I'm actually dating that girl now but that's another story. ) :P

Anyway I suggest go easy with the negging, technically you don't even have to neg at all. Focus on building comfort with this girl. Get to know her a bit more, and maybe go direct if you're wanting to speed things up. Good luck!
Author:  AFCHavok [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 10:59 am ]
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Yeah, don't neg shy girls, in my experience...anyway, I was in this same boat last week, and I went in hot, asked her to food, spent a few hours with her and blew it by moving too fast, even though I could tell she was into me...she pushed me away and asked that we didnt see eachother anymore, and I respected that...

I think I kino'd too fast (3-4 hours into day 2), In hiendsight, I should have ended day 2, asked for a peck on the cheek, then gone kino on day 3 with her...

Comfort + Trust = Rapport ... Just get her comfortable, and read her body language...
Author:  ChristmasWish [ Wed Jun 15, 2011 10:37 am ]
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Quote:
So, negging is your whole game?
Not sure where you read that?...

I was wondering if there was a different approach on the aspect of negging AKA busting her balls, playfully making fun of her, towards shy girls.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Wed Jun 15, 2011 10:51 am ]
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build more in depth rapport with shy girls ... alot of them still live in the fantasy world of unicorns and pink bunnies. The pretend to be sensetive .. they are just more insecure than other woman period.

to my experience shy girls are very easy to attract but very hard to close... they need lots of comfort and rapport - they easily fail a slut and easily bail out if you are too confident.

it's all comes down to calibration .. if you are very confident and very cocky you shouldn't change your game prior to approaching. with shy people it's not what you should do .. it's more like what you shouldn't do.
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