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| Author: | clue-less-lol [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 3:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | bar game HELP!! |
i realized that iam too cocky (not a good thing) and when i was at the bar when i would say push pulls i would say it too serious like with bearly no smiles (will fix that). the point is many times they would say "oh i gotta go with my friends over there" or would just walk away and go talk to some guy friend and hug him...although i could still tell they were attracted to me and found me very mysterious. but i wasn"t in the mood to re-open, so i would walk away and open a new set and baiscally the same thing would happen over again. what should/could i do to re-open those girls that go over to some friend zone guy or over to some girl firend?? |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 8:44 pm ] |
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just re-open ? ... it's the easiest thing .. they are still attracted , walking away is actually a good thing because it tell you are not there to get in their pants. you are willing to lose the girl , you aren't afraid. actually you can open with anything at this point .. sometimes you can really say stupid or insulting shit to girls that are attracted. i've even re-opened once by calling a chick a whore.... you are thinking too much about game and lines ... just interact , you got nothing to lose. you can even re-open by asking her number... |
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| Author: | clue-less-lol [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 11:30 pm ] |
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ok. but what if she leaves and walks away... |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 4:43 am ] |
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As in, she leaves the bar? Then you start over with another set. You kinda remind me of myself, at the risk of sounding too arrogant, because you do everthing right but then freeze up for no particular reason. You convince yourself you've done something wrong because a book or a website tells you that you need to have X body language and Y voice tone to pull off any particular aspect of game. But if you ditch the initial approach anxiety, make a decent conversation, and walk off, you have done most of the hard work! Don't trick yourself into thinking that something went wrong, just go back in and finish the job. If you worry about her leaving, just get her number early on when you talk to her a second time. Hell, depending on how she was feeling you the first time around, you can even just ask for her number and say next to nothing else. I used to do things like that all the time. Something in my head would just tell me she wasn't interested. I can recall more than one time a buddy punched me in the arm for missing signals. |
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| Author: | Sleeek [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 11:32 am ] |
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Walking away would make HBs want your approval and validation even more, I think freezing out is a damn good technique it never fails to make them wanna cling on to you more. I believe in the law of abundance, theres gotta be more chicks coming into the bar, just approach more, you never know what might turn out. Furthermore, its really easy to reopen another set once you gave a good impression to them. |
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| Author: | clue-less-lol [ Wed Jun 15, 2011 3:18 pm ] |
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yea BOTH post are fucking awesome! now i know what i did wrong... i was being to much of a routine guy and even when they would "behave good" instead of rewarding i would "PUNISH". the thing is they would not tell me to go away, but would go talk to another friend (especially guys) to make me NOTICE or go over to the bar and turn to see if i FOLLOWED... 
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